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Aibu - Beyonce- does anyone else not get her?

230 replies

17Degrees · 11/02/2023 00:20

I feel like she collaborates with people who are "in vouge" and I don't get her music.

OP posts:
plumduck · 11/02/2023 11:18

BEYONCE IS LIFE

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:18

YANBU.

I enjoy Crazy in Love but that’s it.

Went to her concert with a friend, it was painfully mediocre

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:21

@WelshNerd thank you for that video! So so funny 😂 Beyoncé super fans are weirdos, I see they’re demanding an apology from Harry Styles for his best album Grammy win. I HAVE heard Harry’s album (via DD) that is a well deserved award it is sublime from beginning to end

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:22

francopan · 11/02/2023 01:09

Maybe the music’s not for you, and that’s ok. I’m definitely not going to shell out £200+ to go to one of these shows. But saying she’s “overrated” is laughable.

She is an empowering figure for many, particularly young black women and girls, and a vocal and significant advocate of gender and racial equality. She proudly platforms black music and black culture. She is a phenomenal businesswoman. She established a foundation for survivors of Hurricane Katrina, donated over $6m to mental health charities over the pandemic, and set up a charity that supports further education for disadvantaged kids in the US and abroad and paid for coronavirus testing for families that couldn’t afford it. Like it or not, she and her music have successfully evolved with every musical trend and phase since the mid-90s and she has total and complete creative control over everything she produces, which in the music industry is basically unheard of.

Divisive? Apparently. Not your cup of tea? Fine. Overrated? Not a chance.

well said 👏🏼

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/02/2023 11:22

Can’t see what the fuss is about, either. Many better singers/songwriters available.

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:24

What’s to get? She’s creates music and performances, is there some hidden message in there or are you making something of nothing!

I doubt she cares about what some grouchy old middle class middle age women think while she’s losing track of her millions

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:25

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:24

What’s to get? She’s creates music and performances, is there some hidden message in there or are you making something of nothing!

I doubt she cares about what some grouchy old middle class middle age women think while she’s losing track of her millions

Are middle aged women opinion’s of less worth then?

emptythelitterbox · 11/02/2023 11:26

MysteryBelle · 11/02/2023 01:02

Sorry to get off subject but re Harry Styles, he always looks like a 48 year old man to me pretending to be an edgy teen 😂 I don’t get his appeal at all.

Exactly!
Edgy teen girl escaped from the high school thespian club. 😂

LoekMa · 11/02/2023 11:27

I don't get the Beatles, John Lennon or any of those old, ancient Men the media keeps putting infront of cameras as "Rockstars", Paul McCartney or them likes.

Everyone has a different taste

LoekMa · 11/02/2023 11:28

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:25

Are middle aged women opinion’s of less worth then?

To Beyonce/Her team, surely. They aren't her clientele so they can cutely keep it moving.

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:29

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:25

Are middle aged women opinion’s of less worth then?

Did I say that? Ermmm nope

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/02/2023 11:30

“To Beyonce/Her team, surely. They aren't her clientele so they can cutely keep it moving.”

Big assumption there. Beyoncé isn’t a spring chicken herself.

BeckyWithTheAverageHair · 11/02/2023 11:30

I saw Beyoncé in concert 10 years ago and she was outstanding. One of the best gigs I've been to. I'm sure she gives exactly zero fucks if the white women of Mumsnet don't "get" her and is crying (with laughter) all the way to the bank.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 11/02/2023 11:35

Her voice is strangely powerful yet at the same time often quite monotonous. Except on If I were a Boy and She Can't love You (loved Destiny's Child )

Also find her overrated. Lauren Hills voice however ❤️

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:42

BeckyWithTheAverageHair · 11/02/2023 11:30

I saw Beyoncé in concert 10 years ago and she was outstanding. One of the best gigs I've been to. I'm sure she gives exactly zero fucks if the white women of Mumsnet don't "get" her and is crying (with laughter) all the way to the bank.

Why are you bringing race into it? And why do you think MN doesn’t have WOC?

I don’t think anyone expects Beyoncé to give a fuck that they didn’t enjoy her concert (maybe she should) but opinions have been sought for and this unnecessary rage over her criticism is hilarious

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:46

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:29

Did I say that? Ermmm nope

Then why use descriptors such as “old” and “middle aged” then? To emphasise why “B” wouldn’t care about their opinions.

TalkinBaaaaht · 11/02/2023 11:47

I’d say 30-45 yr old women are probably her demographic. I have teens and they couldn’t name a Bey song.

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:49

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:46

Then why use descriptors such as “old” and “middle aged” then? To emphasise why “B” wouldn’t care about their opinions.

I used that because that’s who posts on mumsnet. I’m one of them 😂😂 stop making something of nothing

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:49

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:42

Why are you bringing race into it? And why do you think MN doesn’t have WOC?

I don’t think anyone expects Beyoncé to give a fuck that they didn’t enjoy her concert (maybe she should) but opinions have been sought for and this unnecessary rage over her criticism is hilarious

Age, Race, what do these have to do with someone not really rating a singer. Why is the identity of those holding them being used to minimise the worth of specific opinions?

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:51

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:46

Then why use descriptors such as “old” and “middle aged” then? To emphasise why “B” wouldn’t care about their opinions.

They absolutely meant older women’s opinions don’t count.

We only count when we’re young, spiritedly and buxom (aka useful to men)

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:51

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:49

Age, Race, what do these have to do with someone not really rating a singer. Why is the identity of those holding them being used to minimise the worth of specific opinions?

Indeed!

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:53

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 11:49

I used that because that’s who posts on mumsnet. I’m one of them 😂😂 stop making something of nothing

I don’t think I am actually. I think it is something. You’d never belittle opinions based on other identity characteristics would you? For example colour or sexuality. As a middle aged woman yourself why do you think it’s ok to do it based on age? Sneerily dismiss an opinion because it’s an “old” “middle aged” woman holding it.

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:54

TheObstinateHeadstrongGirl · 11/02/2023 11:51

They absolutely meant older women’s opinions don’t count.

We only count when we’re young, spiritedly and buxom (aka useful to men)

Exactly the point I am clumsily trying to make but you did it much better than me 😊

ReadtheReviews · 11/02/2023 12:00

She is beautiful and I quite like her current single. Dont understand her relationship with her husband though, all seems a bit odd.

youshouldnthaveasked · 11/02/2023 12:01

BethDuttonsTwin · 11/02/2023 11:53

I don’t think I am actually. I think it is something. You’d never belittle opinions based on other identity characteristics would you? For example colour or sexuality. As a middle aged woman yourself why do you think it’s ok to do it based on age? Sneerily dismiss an opinion because it’s an “old” “middle aged” woman holding it.

OK, well you’ve got something in your head there. Enjoy your Saturday. If you can

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