Please bare with me as I have just pulled myself together following a very very deep sob where I was making almost inhuman noises.
I'm due to marry in the Summer to a nice, considerate guy. However, I know he doesn't really love me for me. My fiance is clearly tired of being single and alone, he just wants someone to spoil and share his life with. He's a good and successful man but I could be replaced by another woman who ticks all the same boxes and it would be of no consequence to him. For my part, I recognise my fiance will be able to provide financially and will take care of me to the best of his ability. I know we can build a life together that will be largely stress free. My childhood was marked by DV and financial pressure caused by a failing business.
I'm fast approaching 30, the last of my friend group to marry and afraid of being left on the shelf. My fiance just wants a good looking, educated woman that will be good to his family and future kids.
I'm scared I'll never experience true love in this lifetime and the idea of this makes me want to weep.
God, I'm welling up again.
What the hell should I do?
Please please be kind my anxiety is through the roof.