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To be annoyed she's selling on hand me downs?

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Terribleactor · 16/01/2023 11:39

Asking to settle an argument with DH!

My SIL (BIL's wife) has a baby a few months younger than mine. They are the same sex so I have passed on quite a few bits to her over the past year, when my DC has grown out of them. I have recently discovered that she has been selling these things on various selling sites. I didn't give them to her expecting them back but I feel put out that she's profiting from the things I have given her! I could have sold them myself I suppose, but chose to give them to her.

My DH thinks I'm BU as I have given them away and so they are no longer mine. Is he right or am I ?!

OP posts:
BlossomOfOrange · 17/01/2023 09:41

May be she just hasn’t thought it through. As a busy tired parent, could it be she’s focusing on a clear out of baby clothes and isn’t being mindful of what came from where, not to be cheeky, to just get on and get the job done?

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