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Paul Breach

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TulipsRule · 04/01/2023 09:10

For those of you who use TikTok, have you seen this Paul Breach Guy? What’s your opinions on him?
My cousins daughter showed me his videos, it’s quite alarming and I’m worried that he seems to get so much engagement on the platform which is really geared toward teenagers.

she’s explained the back story to me, he’s forty odd and got a 16/17 year old pregnant when he was 28 (I think). And he since has been allegedly messaging and creating content geared toward teenage girls. Most recently, he stayed in a hotel with a 19 year old with the pretence of taking photos, all starting to sound a bit Dahmer-esqe.

Forgive me if this isn’t accurate it is being relayed to me by a younger family member.

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Helpyou · 04/01/2023 09:11

I keep seeing his name being mentioned but I haven't really known what's going on. Interested to hear other people's views on this!

rainbowandglitter · 04/01/2023 09:39

He gives me the creeps majorly. He's loving all the attention though.

ChristmasCough · 04/01/2023 09:46

He's incredibly creepy but that's what his content thrives on. It's difficult because people spend so much time watching him, commenting how weird he is, joining his lives to call him out and making parody videos, that fuels his "success". if people took away that attention then he would not have the "fame" and access to the young girls who find him. But saying we should ignore the creepy predator men and not call them out is the wrong message to send.

That's my thoughts anyway.

GinoVino · 04/01/2023 10:09

I don't think it's fair to say he's like Dahmer. Dahmer was a cannibalistic serial killer! Paul is a disgusting ham faced pervert, who's grooming young & vulnerable women. But hasn't, as far as anyone knows, murdered and eaten anyone. Not yet anyway. He thrives if the attention. It's only a matter of time before someone breaks his legs to be honest.

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TulipsRule · 04/01/2023 10:20

@ChristmasCough yes I totally agree, ignoring it is not ok, but as you said, he is basically being paid to behave this way as I’m sure he is aware his views are only because he’s controversial. Also, love the username - me too 😂

@GinoVino no I don’t really think he is a cannibal serial killer, using a similar tactic to lure young girls though from what I was told. I hope he doesn’t get physically harmed as it will only further bolster his victim narrative. His blatant predatory behaviour is astounding

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sharonelizabeth · 04/01/2023 10:50

Yes he’s a strange one and definitely seems to thrive on the attention of young girls, he gives me the creeps.

Theopossumwasmeantforme · 04/01/2023 10:56

I only saw the "yes I'm friends with Paul breach. I went out with him in sheffield..." thing (and the many videos that caused). I had a quick look eventually and saw a video where he was talking to a girl in live who looked young and they were talking about how they met (Instagram I think). It all looked very dodgy.

feathermucker · 04/01/2023 11:18

I find him incredibly creepy and weird. The way he talks, the style of language he uses. Definite ick factor

YoureAMeanOneMrGrinch · 04/01/2023 11:23

He makes my skin crawl. With the staying in the Air B&B with the 19 year old, she had posted on her IG that she was shooting OF content that night. She's since posted screenshots of calling 999 multiple times that night but not gone in to detail about what may of happened.

This man seems to travel to different towns and walk around by himself, gets a hotel by himself and will go to nightclubs (like Popworld) alone.

He is very cringey, thinks he is genuinely famous, and will only speak with people on his live TikTok's if they add him on either Instagram or WhatsApp and message him on there. Very concerning.

onmywayamarillo · 04/01/2023 11:30

Yes I've been watching him for months and most people on TT seem to have a handle on him. He's gross perv and gets called out a lot. Gets banned a lot too.

IrmaGord · 04/01/2023 11:34

He's an absolute creep but I have the 'yes, I'm friends with Paul Breach' speech playing in my head 24/7.

He makes me feel sick. The dancing, the licking his lips, the shoes that are too big for him and him farting on his lives...I do enjoy the tiktoks taking the piss out of him though.

Bestkindaparty · 04/01/2023 12:11

He makes me ill. The way he talks on his lives but with comments off so no one can call him out drives me mad. Any normal person would be mortified with the accusations but he thrives on it and does whatever he can to keep them coming. That poor girl has been a sw since a young age and has documented her sh wounds and her mental health issues. He is a groomer under the guise of being a "photographer" yet doesn't own a camera just uses his phone. He's a dangerous predator who should be permanently removed from all social media platforms

MermaidEyes · 04/01/2023 12:19

He's a creepy fucker and my kids will agree but they still watch his content, if only to take the piss out of. I've told them they're just adding to his popularity. He's a paedo hiding in plain sight if you ask me.

Bestkindaparty · 04/01/2023 12:28

I feel so sorry for his son. Being a teenager is hard enough without your dad embarrassing himself and being a creep all over the Internet

Gerrataere · 04/01/2023 13:09

Ive resigned up for this thread. If you have teens on the app and live in locations he visits, please tell them not to approach him. Please make sure they’re not ‘gifting’ him on the app, even as a joke to call him names. He doesn’t need engaging with at all, he is getting more brazen with his want to hang around older teen girls and it’s disturbing.

MassiveSalad22 · 04/01/2023 13:12

uh, this guy?? 🤢 I assume a troll acc as no one stupid enough to put that in a bio, but no smoke without fire.

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Yourteaisgettingcold · 04/01/2023 13:15

Hes dangerous as well as extremely narcissistic, the reason he doesn't have comments on is because he is immediately called out on his behaviour but cannot provide a decent response back so he controls the narrative at all times.

I'm glad he is being spoken about on here to raise awareness to other parents as his target audience/girlfriends are teens and early 20s.

There are many well educated individuals giving their opinion (sometimes professional opinion such as from psychologists etc) so I recommend seeking out these if you need information about why so many are concerned, rather than just a standard 'hes creepy and looks weird' kind ofa reason.

TaxWoes · 04/01/2023 13:15

MassiveSalad22 · 04/01/2023 13:12

uh, this guy?? 🤢 I assume a troll acc as no one stupid enough to put that in a bio, but no smoke without fire.

That's obviously a troll account. Albeit an accurate one.

MermaidEyes · 04/01/2023 13:15

MassiveSalad22 · 04/01/2023 13:12

uh, this guy?? 🤢 I assume a troll acc as no one stupid enough to put that in a bio, but no smoke without fire.

Yep that guy. As I said earlier, hiding in plain sight.

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TulipsRule · 04/01/2023 13:16

MassiveSalad22 · 04/01/2023 13:12

uh, this guy?? 🤢 I assume a troll acc as no one stupid enough to put that in a bio, but no smoke without fire.

yes that’s the guy!!! I don’t think that’s a real account though!

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Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 04/01/2023 13:18

He's disgusting. He's nearly 43 and hanging around teenage or just over teenage age women. He's so grim.

Mizzpah · 04/01/2023 13:20

I’ve known of him and the rumours for a while. Very concerning. Also whenever I come across his lives he always seems to talking down to someone.

Most recently though, I was really disturbed to see a clip of him appearing to insinuate that he took adult photos of the 19 year old, for her OF profile.

He seems to be exactly the type of character that I’d tell my daughter to stay away from - whether she was 16,17,19, etc

I’m amazed TikTok still allow him to use their platform given how he appears to be using it.

OlympicProcrastinator · 04/01/2023 13:21

He’s a 43 year old man with no discernible job or friends, living with his dad, grooming young women. Trouble is, he stays just inside the law. Nobody is under age. He is utterly repugnant but legally he’s done nothing wrong. Morally though it’s another story.

Gerrataere · 04/01/2023 13:24

Mizzpah · 04/01/2023 13:20

I’ve known of him and the rumours for a while. Very concerning. Also whenever I come across his lives he always seems to talking down to someone.

Most recently though, I was really disturbed to see a clip of him appearing to insinuate that he took adult photos of the 19 year old, for her OF profile.

He seems to be exactly the type of character that I’d tell my daughter to stay away from - whether she was 16,17,19, etc

I’m amazed TikTok still allow him to use their platform given how he appears to be using it.

Unfortunately by the very nature of TT, they don’t care as long as the person is getting views and making them money. They don’t care about the young girls getting abuse for speaking to him, or the businesses getting harassed because he stayed there. He’s ‘technically’ not doing anything illegal, which he is very smug as using as an excuse. We all know no decent, healthy-minded middle aged man would be doing the things he does though. He represents everything that is dangerous to young women who are on the cusp of adulthood, that older man who’s looking for a younger girlfriend to control and inflate his ego.

Yourteaisgettingcold · 04/01/2023 13:26

Tiktok allow him because of the amount of money he makes from subscriptions, gifting etc (mostly from people who are actually taking the piss out of him). They don't care that his behaviour is more than suss when they're profiting.

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