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RIP Sebastian

159 replies

bluewanda · 03/11/2022 21:40

Fucking hell - that poor, poor boy. His mother and her partner are absolute monsters. What a disgusting world we live in :(

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11386701/Mother-bodybuilder-partner-jailed-39-years-murder-15-year-old-son.html

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Thisisworsethananticpated · 04/11/2022 23:26

Jesus
thats just savage
I also hope they have the worst time possible in prison
as to do that to a child …
I have no words really

PinkSox · 05/11/2022 01:27

IneedanewTV · 03/11/2022 23:23

How the hell were they allowed to get married. Who thought that was a good idea? They were waiting trial for murder. There should be no privileges! Heads should roll for that.

They are not married. She wrote a letter, when they were in custody.. accused of murdering Sebastian, saying she would marry him - even if it meant her wearing the prison tracksuit. Nowhere does it say they were allowed to marry in prison. 🙄

PinkSox · 05/11/2022 01:45

spirit20 · 04/11/2022 21:28

Exactly. And also...isn't the dad in Poland. He probably speaks no English, and has limited funds, why would he travel to a foreign country ,where he doesn't speak the language so wouldn't understand a word of what was going on, and pay a fortune in hotels etc. just to have to relive the horror his son went through.

The only question I would have is why the father sent him to live with a mother who he hadn't actually known since he was 3 years old. I know she's his mother, so some people might think he would be better off with her, but surely common sense would have told that he's better off staying with his father who he had known and grown up with .

I followed the trial live via reporting from court. It seems Sebastian’s mother abandoned him when he was 5 years old. She moved from Poland to UK where she shacked up with her steroid pumped lover.

Sebastian’s father brought him up for 11 years. When he met a woman and had another child Sebastian was surplus to requirements. He asked that evil cow and some bloke he had never met to take Sebastian or he would put him in a children's home in Poland.

I have no sympathy for Jacek Kalinowski.

Poor Sebastian. He was unloved throughout his life. How dare his father make a Personal Victim Statement! The only victim here is Sebastian, God Bless him 🥲

None of his family attended Court, not even to see justice served for Sebastian.

StClare101 · 05/11/2022 02:22

I teared up reading that article. That poor boy. Of course it’s in the public interest. How many adults did Sebastian interact with that didn’t know anything was wrong? We all need to pay more attention and follow our instincts when something doesn’t feel right. Sebastian was attending school and no one knew. He had neighbours and they didn’t hear….. what a tragedy.

Thisisworsethananticpated · 05/11/2022 07:40

PinkSox

i wondered about where the dad was in al this

stories like this make me want to believe in things like heaven and reincarnation

purely so that something better can happen to Sebastian

his poor soul

PeeJayDay · 05/11/2022 13:08

"The pair of killers, who married each other while languishing in jail after being convicted earlier this year, were both jailed for life with a minimum term of 39 years."

@PinkSox

"Nowhere does it say they were allowed to marry in prison. 🙄"

Yes it does, no need for the eye rolling

Spanglemum · 05/11/2022 13:18

Another child, like Logan, Star and Arthur and countless others, to be killed by mother's partner. Sadly I don't think the numbers are increasing, it's the fact that they're not decreasing that's so awful.
That poor child.
Rest In Peace Sebastian

DueyCheatemAndHow · 05/11/2022 14:49

And now we have 10 month old Finley. Beaten to death on Christmas Day.

It frightens me to think of the sheer numbers of innocent children who are left at the hands of these bastards

PeterRabbitIsNotHere · 05/11/2022 14:54

Horrific story! My heart broke reading this earlier this week.

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