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Wtf! JLL married his 13 year old Cousin

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Paris2023 · 28/10/2022 23:22

BBC article

why are all these ‘celebs’ offering condolences to a pedophile?

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onlythreenow · 31/10/2022 08:46

Thats “are you old enough” - classic Australian rock song. Just heard it in the supermarket yesterday

Actually it's a classic New Zealand rock song, the band just happened to be based in Australia when it was recorded. I still hear it all the time on the radio.

I'm a bit sick of all this sanctimonious stuff about "paedophiles" by a bunch of people who weren't around at the time and have no idea what life was like. Kids weren't still at school at 18 like they are now, they were out living life much earlier and not being wrapped in cotton wool by their parents. No-one forced these girls into anything. It happened in a different time and all this hand-wringing doesn't change anything - what the hell is the point in bringing it up now? Maybe worry about some of the horrific things happening to young girls these days and campaign for something to be done about it.

Changechangychange · 31/10/2022 09:28

EconomyClassRockstar · 29/10/2022 04:41

Errrr, the guy you just made King was 29 when he met his future wife and she was 16 AND he was dating her sister. 32 and 19 when they married. Ick!!!

Struggling to see what is wrong with a 16 year old meeting her big sisters boyfriend Hmm

JoanOfAllTrades · 31/10/2022 12:21

onlythreenow · 31/10/2022 08:46

Thats “are you old enough” - classic Australian rock song. Just heard it in the supermarket yesterday

Actually it's a classic New Zealand rock song, the band just happened to be based in Australia when it was recorded. I still hear it all the time on the radio.

I'm a bit sick of all this sanctimonious stuff about "paedophiles" by a bunch of people who weren't around at the time and have no idea what life was like. Kids weren't still at school at 18 like they are now, they were out living life much earlier and not being wrapped in cotton wool by their parents. No-one forced these girls into anything. It happened in a different time and all this hand-wringing doesn't change anything - what the hell is the point in bringing it up now? Maybe worry about some of the horrific things happening to young girls these days and campaign for something to be done about it.

Very true about kids leaving school earlier! Not to say it was right, but staying on at school wasn’t a choice for a lot of working class teens who had siblings, especially outside of London and the Home Counties. Closing the mines also hit a lot of families hard. Lots of kids left school as soon as they were 16 and got jobs or tried to get apprenticed on somewhere to help out with the family finances and a lot of times to save to move out or buy a car.

I wonder how many of you were alive in the mid-70’s for example, let alone have real memories of those times - as in not things you’ve read, or seen on television.

Also, media - television - wasn’t like now. BBC2 had the testcard more often than not, the most exciting thing on BBC radio was The Archers, the most exciting thing on commercial radio was the Sunday night chart countdown, and Coronation Street wasn’t pre-recorded!

As children, we were very protected from more unpleasant things that were going on whereas my DH and his siblings knew one of the Moors Murderers victims as DH’s sibling was best mates with the victim and still misses them and talks about them even now.

antelopevalley · 31/10/2022 13:00

It was child abuse where they were under 16 and was disapproved of.
It is true most ordinary 16-year-olds were like me, out working full-time. I knew 18-year-olds supervising other staff.

antelopevalley · 31/10/2022 13:08

Changechangychange · 31/10/2022 09:28

Struggling to see what is wrong with a 16 year old meeting her big sisters boyfriend Hmm

32 and 19 is too big an age gap and would have been thought to be by most at the time.
Things can be legal but still disapproved of. Most would disapprove of an 18 year old marrying an 80 year old today, even though it is legal.

mamabear715 · 31/10/2022 13:09

Old news.

kerosene20 · 31/10/2022 14:03

I watched the movie with Winona Ryder years ago so knew this. Recently read some very disturbing things about the RHCP, and struggling to understand how they’ve gotten away with it, AK in particular.

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