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Wtf! JLL married his 13 year old Cousin

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Paris2023 · 28/10/2022 23:22

BBC article

why are all these ‘celebs’ offering condolences to a pedophile?

OP posts:
Tuilpmouse · 29/10/2022 14:40

Society was (sadly) far more accepting of sexualising teenagers than it is now. Back in the early 80s I believe Sam Fox was a topless page 3 girl on her 16th birthday, and there wasn't an outcry.

If Prince Andrew had been 30 years younger, there would have been hardly any outcry at his exploits.

PriamFarrl · 29/10/2022 14:49

Tuilpmouse · 29/10/2022 14:40

Society was (sadly) far more accepting of sexualising teenagers than it is now. Back in the early 80s I believe Sam Fox was a topless page 3 girl on her 16th birthday, and there wasn't an outcry.

If Prince Andrew had been 30 years younger, there would have been hardly any outcry at his exploits.

Yes. Sam Fox’s mother entered her into a competition and when she turned 16 she was topless on page 3. Different times! I’m not saying it was right but women who protested were seen as being fusty old sticks.

Tuilpmouse · 29/10/2022 14:53

What JLL etc did was extremely wrong (by modern standards and to an extent the standards of the day) but that does not make it paedophilia.

I think I agree... It feels a bit like people insisting that every kind of sexual assault should be called rape on the basis that doing otherwise somehow minimises the sexual assault.... or insisting every assault is termed GBH to avoid minimising the assault.

waterlego · 29/10/2022 14:54

women who protested were seen as being fusty old sticks. And branded jealous, no doubt!

ancientgran · 29/10/2022 15:01

EconomyClassRockstar · 29/10/2022 04:41

Errrr, the guy you just made King was 29 when he met his future wife and she was 16 AND he was dating her sister. 32 and 19 when they married. Ick!!!

What is ick about meeting your girlfriends younger sister? They got together years later, so what?

RambamThankyouMam · 29/10/2022 15:01

It's a truth that needs to be acknowledged more - a very high number of men are nonces.

PriamFarrl · 29/10/2022 15:37

waterlego · 29/10/2022 14:54

women who protested were seen as being fusty old sticks. And branded jealous, no doubt!

Jealous, lesbians or in need of a good shag.

Ellmau · 29/10/2022 17:36

Dolly Parton got married at 15?

No, she was 20, and met him at 18 after she moved to Nashville after graduating high school.

You may be thinking of Loretta Lynn, who was 15 (and for years the narrative was that she had been 13, but actually that was due to her subsequently lopping a couple of years off her age when she first became a star as a mum of 4).

Ericaequites · 29/10/2022 17:55

New Hampshire and Massachusetts have low legal marriage ages, but less than a dozen under sixteen persons marry in those states per year. Less than 1% of youth marry before 18 in the United States. Rates are highest in the Deep South and Texas. Those parts of the US feel more foreign to mas a New Englander than England itself.

Onlyforcake · 29/10/2022 17:57

Abusers do like to have easy access and groom them from ASAP.

Nanny0gg · 29/10/2022 18:07

ninetieseyebrows · 28/10/2022 23:28

And Pricilla was 14 when Elvis married her, child brides must have been en vogue then. Sickening

She was 21.

Younger when she moved in to Graceland. But insists they didn't have full sex till married.

Still not right, but not 14

Binglebong · 29/10/2022 18:58

That video is horrific. The way she keeps holding stuff up to her mouth - I associate that with a very young child.

XelaM · 29/10/2022 20:09

Binglebong · 29/10/2022 18:58

That video is horrific. The way she keeps holding stuff up to her mouth - I associate that with a very young child.

What video of whom?

Afterfire · 29/10/2022 20:30

XelaM · 29/10/2022 20:09

What video of whom?

The video of them (JLL and his 13 year old bride) I posted up earlier in the thread. I can’t find the link again now but I found it on you tube.

Afterfire · 29/10/2022 20:31

Binglebong · 29/10/2022 18:58

That video is horrific. The way she keeps holding stuff up to her mouth - I associate that with a very young child.

Yes I think the video is very disturbing. It’s impossible not to realise how much of a child she was watching that.

CavaggiosCat · 29/10/2022 21:07

She was shooting the Rock the boat video in the Bahamas with all her dancers and the pilot warned them they couldn't carry all their stuff back at once but they didn't want to leave anything behind and crashed not long after take off.
However, I understand what your saying in terms of a butterfly type effect his involvement in her life may have had.

CavaggiosCat · 29/10/2022 21:08

That was @JoanOfAllTrades

lbnblbnb · 29/10/2022 21:11

Annonymiss123 · 29/10/2022 00:09

47 year old Bill Wyman said of Mandy Smith…

"She took my breath away ... she was a woman at thirteen."

They married when she was 18 and he was 52.

I remember Mandy being portrayed as a “wild child” in the papers when she was just a young teen. Great parenting there…

I was told - not 100% sure - that Mandy's mother was a partner of Bill Wyman's son, that is how they met. Totally revolting.

Murdoch1949 · 29/10/2022 21:15

A Rolling Stone was with a child, married her asap, Bill Wyman. Was just accepted by the media that this beautiful teenager, Mandy Smith, (13) was with this 50+ old man.

TheLassWiADelicateAir · 29/10/2022 23:43

lbnblbnb · 29/10/2022 21:11

I was told - not 100% sure - that Mandy's mother was a partner of Bill Wyman's son, that is how they met. Totally revolting.

That's not correct. Mandy's mother got together with Wyman's son after Mandy and Wyman separated.

sashh · 30/10/2022 01:29

BritWifeInUSA · 29/10/2022 06:21

Not true. The law in Tennessee is currently 16 years minimum age with parental consent. 18 without. It used to be 15. Never 13.

Interestingly enough, New Hampshire and Massachusetts currently have the lowest age for marriage at 13 and 12. Hardly “the sticks”. Kentucky, West Virginia, and Louisiana (which are more likely to be considered “the sticks”) require you to be 18.

But, cool story, bro.

Those are the youngest ages for states that have an age, as I said some states, including California, there is no minimum age.

This is age for marriage, not age of consent, that's 18 in California.

Also the USA inherited it's marriage laws from England, at the time that was 12.

JoanOfAllTrades · 30/10/2022 02:20

Well, King John, much reviled by his Barons, married Isabella when she was ~11

Kanaloa · 30/10/2022 15:40

JoanOfAllTrades · 30/10/2022 02:20

Well, King John, much reviled by his Barons, married Isabella when she was ~11

Erm… in the 1100s. And it STILL didn’t even work out. So marrying a little girl who is your cousin has been historically and recently proven to be a bad idea!

JoanOfAllTrades · 30/10/2022 23:13

Kanaloa · 30/10/2022 15:40

Erm… in the 1100s. And it STILL didn’t even work out. So marrying a little girl who is your cousin has been historically and recently proven to be a bad idea!

Exactly! And it was in the 1200’s I’m pretty sure....

Clawdy · 31/10/2022 07:55

Those mediaeval marriages to very young princesses were never usually consummated until the girls were older, though. They were marriages in name only, often to link countries, and avoid wars.

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