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Wtf! JLL married his 13 year old Cousin

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Paris2023 · 28/10/2022 23:22

BBC article

why are all these ‘celebs’ offering condolences to a pedophile?

OP posts:
MarshaMelrose · 29/10/2022 00:06

Myra Gale Brown is 78 now. I don't think she regrets anything.

AdoraBell · 29/10/2022 00:06

I read an article on BBC a few years ago, it was about states in the USA were there is no age limit for marriage and lots of men marrying children. Can’t remember which states now but most were in the south. Some politicians in Washington were trying to put a stop to it.

LadybirdsAreNeverHappy · 29/10/2022 00:07

PurpleButterflyWings · 28/10/2022 23:52

Bit nasty isn't it? Legal in some states though. (As horrific as it is!)

Didn't R Kelly marry Aaliyah when she was 15 and he was nearly 30?! And that wasn't the dark ages, that was the mid 1990s!

Yes he did and several witnesses testified in court that he falsified documents in order to marry her because she actually wasn’t even yet fifteen at the time.

Annonymiss123 · 29/10/2022 00:09

47 year old Bill Wyman said of Mandy Smith…

"She took my breath away ... she was a woman at thirteen."

They married when she was 18 and he was 52.

I remember Mandy being portrayed as a “wild child” in the papers when she was just a young teen. Great parenting there…

PyongyangKipperbang · 29/10/2022 00:10

Underage marriage was not even surprising in certain US states then, it was very common, in some places it still is. I read an article not that long ago, might have been in the old Independent weekend magazine, about young teen couples being encouraged to marry as an alternative to going to hell for pre marital sex in the deeply religious deep south. There were interviews with couples between 13 and 16. I agree it isnt right but in JLL case, he may not have realised that this wasnt a "thing that is ok" the world over.

And at 13 she wasnt pre puberty so he wasnt a paedophile.

LaGioconda · 29/10/2022 00:14

MarshaMelrose · 29/10/2022 00:06

Myra Gale Brown is 78 now. I don't think she regrets anything.

She divorced Lewis on grounds of adultery and abuse, stating that she had been "subject to every type of physical and mental abuse imaginable". I suspect she regrets that.

Badnewsoracle · 29/10/2022 00:14

Yep grim. But so was Elvis - 10 years older than the 14 year old he was kissing. I know she claims they didn't have sex until they married but he moved her in and fed her drugs at 17.

viques · 29/10/2022 00:14

The Queen and Prince Phillip were third cousins and she is supposed to have fallen for him when she was 13. Though to be fair they didn’t get married until she was 21. But they were still third cousins.

Kite22 · 29/10/2022 00:14

This really is decades old news.

But if you want to know of other well known people who met their partner (who was an adult at the time) when they were very young, look up how young the Queen was when she first met, and became besotted with Prince Phillip......

Kite22 · 29/10/2022 00:16

In truth, if your know anything of his life, I'm far more surprised he was still alive at 87.

I mean, shooting his own bass player in the 70s was hardly an honourable moment in his life either.

Whelm · 29/10/2022 00:18

In 'honour cultures', there is often an acceptance that where sex occurs without marriage, getting married limits the damage to the girl's family. The lack of legislation to ensure the brides age or consent enables parents and relatives to resolve matters to their satisfaction. The children rarely get a say in the matter.

LadybirdsAreNeverHappy · 29/10/2022 00:21

Loretta Lynn married at fifteen to a 21 year old man.

ManefesationofConciousness · 29/10/2022 00:21

Mick jagger
the trafalgar hotel (a Hilton) has his image in every room
when I asked them why I would want to sleep facing a image of self confessed paedophile they looked at me as if I was bonkers

Badnewsoracle · 29/10/2022 00:22

viques · 29/10/2022 00:14

The Queen and Prince Phillip were third cousins and she is supposed to have fallen for him when she was 13. Though to be fair they didn’t get married until she was 21. But they were still third cousins.

To be fair, my husband could be my third cousin and I wouldn't have a clue- I barely know the names of my great grandparents, let alone their siblings grand children!

MarshaMelrose · 29/10/2022 00:23

LaGioconda · 29/10/2022 00:14

She divorced Lewis on grounds of adultery and abuse, stating that she had been "subject to every type of physical and mental abuse imaginable". I suspect she regrets that.

He was on drugs and having affairs so, yes, it wasn't pleasant for her. But she didn't feel she was abused by marrying so young. She's done loads of interviews. They were friends up to the time of his death.

MarshaMelrose · 29/10/2022 00:25

In truth, if your know anything of his life, I'm far more surprised he was still alive at 87.

It had been misreported that he had died over a week ago and he issued a statement to say he was still alive.

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 29/10/2022 00:31

PurpleButterflyWings · 28/10/2022 23:52

Bit nasty isn't it? Legal in some states though. (As horrific as it is!)

Didn't R Kelly marry Aaliyah when she was 15 and he was nearly 30?! And that wasn't the dark ages, that was the mid 1990s!

My 15 year old friend at school was in a relationship with a 36 year old around that time. And her parents were ok with it.

Goldencarp · 29/10/2022 00:33

ninetieseyebrows · 28/10/2022 23:28

And Pricilla was 14 when Elvis married her, child brides must have been en vogue then. Sickening

she was 22 when they got married according to Google!

antelopevalley · 29/10/2022 00:45

Afterfire · 29/10/2022 00:03

There’s an interview with JLL and his child bride here… it’s so creepy as is so obviously so young.

I think it’s disgusting people aren’t calling him out for being a paedophile. A 22 year old man with a 13 year old child is a paedophile.

She gave birth to their first child at 14 and later said the marriage was as abusive as it could have possibly have been.

People did call it out at the time. It ruined his career.

Lessofallthisunpleasantness · 29/10/2022 00:48

It seems ikky in this day and age because we are not used to it but times change.

In those days they thought that same sex relationships were wrong but we don't now.

Maybe one day bestiality will be all the rage and socially acceptable, honestly, nothing would surprise me with the speed things change.

It all ebbs and flows.

Historically and around the world girls have often married after child bearing age so anytime from about 12 I guess.

MrsJackGrealish · 29/10/2022 00:49

He was also still married at the time he married Myra. He also married the ex wife of Myra's brother after Myra.

Their first child drowned in a swimming pool when he was 3.

Kanaloa · 29/10/2022 00:52

Lessofallthisunpleasantness · 29/10/2022 00:48

It seems ikky in this day and age because we are not used to it but times change.

In those days they thought that same sex relationships were wrong but we don't now.

Maybe one day bestiality will be all the rage and socially acceptable, honestly, nothing would surprise me with the speed things change.

It all ebbs and flows.

Historically and around the world girls have often married after child bearing age so anytime from about 12 I guess.

Erm, no. I already pointed this out in an earlier post - it caused outcry and scandal publicly at the time. It wasn’t considered appropriate for a man in his twenties to marry a little girl even then. That’s why the newspapers referred to her as a ‘child bride’ and him as a ‘baby snatcher.’ That’s why he met with hostility and had to cancel part of his tour etc.

Grumpusaurus · 29/10/2022 01:02

Some sources claim that Myra might even been 12 when he shacked up with her. Two of his wives died in strange circumstances. One drowned in her pool soon after her divorce. The other 'officially' died from an edema but there was blood spotted on his clothing but it was all ignored and hushed up. He was an abusive, nasty man.

OneTC · 29/10/2022 01:09

Afterfire · 29/10/2022 00:03

There’s an interview with JLL and his child bride here… it’s so creepy as is so obviously so young.

I think it’s disgusting people aren’t calling him out for being a paedophile. A 22 year old man with a 13 year old child is a paedophile.

She gave birth to their first child at 14 and later said the marriage was as abusive as it could have possibly have been.

I actually had presumed he was long dead.

When this came out at the time it was the end of his fame in the UK

Grumpusaurus · 29/10/2022 01:09

At least, in his case it had consequences. He was set to become one of the largest Rockabilly stars, seriously rivalling Elvis, after his initial recording success but the scandal over his underage wife did actually kill his career for quite a while and he was dropped by the Sun label. He was totally broke then. He eventually moved over to Country Music where he had more moderate success after appearing to be contrite. He only just got inducted to the Country Music Hall of Fame a couple of years ago.