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sarah8484 · 17/10/2022 13:42

Im at work, dp is at home with our dc 9 months and 13 years. 13 year old is off school sick. Ive just messaged ds on my lunch to see how he is and he has messaged back and said my dp (their dad) had left my 13 year old alone to watch my 9 month old while he went out for 10 minutes. Ive never gave my 13 year old that responsibility before. He said she was playing and he said be back in 10 minutes and just left. Im not going to say anything till im home but can't believe he actually did that!

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Lynz78 · 18/10/2022 20:25

Did you get banged up for murdering him or are you still driving home ?

Mnbvcxzlk · 18/10/2022 21:05

Just from reading the the 1st post I knew this would be a dump and run OP.
Why post if you aren't going to engage, even if you don't get the responses you want. Be gracious and thank people for their time to read and respond at the very least, even if you don't want to give an update. So rude to just piss off after the initial post.

THEDEACON · 18/10/2022 21:11

What exactly is your problem ?

peanutbutterontoast7 · 18/10/2022 21:30

@HellothereSH no irony, I shared an opinion and immediately accepted that my opinion is different to others and that's fine.
You keep tagging me in stuff and asking me questions and then asking me why I'm responding.
It's all very strange! But please do feel free to leave it at that because this conversation is booorinnngggg!

Mydogsanasshole · 18/10/2022 21:39

I can’t quite understand how your youngest was 6mo last month (19/09/2022, Lazy Partner) and now 9mo old this month or have I missed something??

Bumpsadaisie · 18/10/2022 22:40

Is your DH not their parent?

Pants0nFir3 · 18/10/2022 22:53

Another load of middle class tosh

AnnieSnap · 18/10/2022 23:25

What is your issue with a baby being left with a 13-year-old for a short time? It seems a perfectly reasonable thing to me.

Mollymoostoo · 18/10/2022 23:42

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😂😂😅

Mollymoostoo · 18/10/2022 23:44

Mnbvcxzlk · 18/10/2022 21:05

Just from reading the the 1st post I knew this would be a dump and run OP.
Why post if you aren't going to engage, even if you don't get the responses you want. Be gracious and thank people for their time to read and respond at the very least, even if you don't want to give an update. So rude to just piss off after the initial post.

It's a habit. I screenshotted various posts from the OP that clearly show inconsistent stories.

Mamanyt · 19/10/2022 00:18

DS is 13, not 3. Many 13-year-olds are babysitting, even now. It was the norm when I came along (a long, long time ago). Unless DS is quite sick, and physically incapable, or unless there is an underlying reason that you are not stating, I see no problem with this. Nor do I see a problem with the father of a child making a decision concerning that child. Again, unless there is an underlying reason you are not stating.

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peanutbutterontoast7 · 19/10/2022 07:46

@HellothereSH why are you still tagging me? I've asked you to leave me be but you can't seem to help yourself.
I literally made one comment about my opinion and you can't seem to let it drop....
Similar stalker behaviour 😳😬

CloseYourEyesAndSee · 19/10/2022 07:47

13?? Not 3???
YABVVVU

HellothereSH · 19/10/2022 07:55

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peanutbutterontoast7 · 19/10/2022 07:59

@HellothereSH youasked me a question which I answered.
You literally haven't asked to not be tagged.
You are continuously tagging me in stuff.

Please pick up a dicyionary and look up the word irony because you clearly do not no what it means.

If you tag me one more time I'm going to report you.

HellothereSH · 19/10/2022 08:08

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HotToddyColdSauvignon · 19/10/2022 08:20

Errr…. So what?? Unclench OP

Mollymoostoo · 19/10/2022 10:30

peanutbutterontoast7 · 18/10/2022 21:30

@HellothereSH no irony, I shared an opinion and immediately accepted that my opinion is different to others and that's fine.
You keep tagging me in stuff and asking me questions and then asking me why I'm responding.
It's all very strange! But please do feel free to leave it at that because this conversation is booorinnngggg!

I wouldn't leave a baby with a sick 13 year old either and I do have kids. The 13 year old was off school because they were sick. What would DP have done if said child wasn't there?
That said, the OP is a serial drama poster with holes in her stories so this may be a click bait post anyway.