Partner viewing webcam girls

[Pinklemons9]

Last night I found out my partner of 1.5 years watches webcam girls. I have never been comfortable with porn but this is just on another level for me. He said he uses them once a week (we see each other 5 nights a week now, was 3 until recently). They are free and he said he doesn’t chat to them. I think I believe this. I know he loves me and he’d do anything for me. He said he won’t do it again but I feel he’s crossed a line. AIBU?

Some people do it for the money others like the thrill and excitement, others may be forced as with any profession and should be reported.

How do you know the difference?

How do you know the women in the porn you watch aren’t victims of sex trafficking?

Oh look a loaded question that's original, why is it up to me to police this? I I suspect it I will and have, having spoken to those who I know work in this industry.

How do YOU identify how which people are not being forced into illegal activity in life? Go on answer your own question first.

How do you know the person doing your nails, your hair , delivering your pizza, washing your car, building your extension are not trafficked for your own pleasure?

I don’t use services where there is a high likelihood of trafficking - I don’t get my nails done, my hairdresser is my friend from high school, I wash my own car, I would do background checks on any building companies and so on.

What I absolutely don’t do is wank away safe in the knowledge that there’s a high likelihood I’m watching someone being raped. People who happily watch porn are more than happy to turn a blind eye.

Whataboutery at its finest.

and @Spendernone you said you’d reported someone you thought might be forced - was that before you watched them or afterwards?

Oh and I don't think anyones ever got their anus ripped or infected with stds washing cars or doing nails .... 🙄

@Pumperthepumper Quite simply none of your business and that's a private matter. That I'm not prepared to discuss on a public forum.

Also non of your business 🙄

After then. What a hero you are.

How do we cam girls get this online? Do the get a computer virus 😂. You really are clutching at straws now.

Honestly OP is tell him you’re glad this subject has come up. You’ve been running an onlyfans for a while, nothing extreme just like nudes and masturbation, but it’s done so well you’re going to leave your job to do camming full time. You’ve got some really loyal fans across all your platforms. You really enjoy the attention and the cash!
Watch the colour drain from his face as he stammers that either erm that’s great and then ghosts you or that he’s not okay with you providing the service to other men that he’s happy to get from other women. He may even try the It’s Not Sexual It’s Just Entertainment argument.
This is not my first rodeo.

I’d guess that if they’re being forced to dance online for free they’re also being forced to make money elsewhere. You dont seem to know much about this industry you’re creating supply and demand for.

So you have just proved to every one you believe what you want with zero facts. You made a desition as fact in your own head. Says it all about you and all your opinions. I can safely ignore you now.

Thanks for proving my point.

The subject was porn, keep up..

Sure. I suspect your next wank to trafficked victims might be a bit more difficult after this thread.

Also a relevant point.
Sex workers cross platforms.

The post that's cut through all the BS to the core of this issue, both on a personal level and socially.

Unfortunately some people are just in denial about watching abuse online and their part in it.

The subject is web cam girls, read the title. Selection is a sign you have lost your argument another to ignore now as you have lost your argument. Bye bye 👋

Actually she proved her own point.

Wrong.

The discussion had moved onto porn and trafficking.

I responded to that post.

And you're coming across as truly desperate with your bye bye's etc.

most guys watch it, how does he know that, does he speak to everyman on the planet and ask whether they watch of course he dosent he is just trying to justify what he is doing!!

Spendernone stop moving on to pick on other posters since you've been roundly routed by Pumper and thrown your toys out of the pram there.

"I can safely ignore you now etc etc at her ..... It's an internet forum, how could not safely ignore her before.