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The tale of the fluffy blanket and the dodgy electrics

817 replies

IvyPlant · 22/09/2022 12:39

For those following this existing thread: www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4635864-tradesperson-inviting-people-into-my-home?page=1 aka the tale of the fluffy blanket and the dodgy electrics thread, it continues here.

Nothing new to add at the moment though, but the previous thread is almost at capacity.

OP posts:
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ArchieStar · 22/09/2022 13:53

Good luck OP!

Sixsmith · 22/09/2022 13:58

Made it

DobbyTheHouseElk · 22/09/2022 14:02

He’s probably been doing this at various properties for ages. Really grim.

Youaremysunshine14 · 22/09/2022 14:03

I honestly can't work out how this is going to pan out. He invoices OP for eight full days, then what?
OP: "Actually, I can prove you didn't work eight full days, I have footage of someone coming onto my property to visit you for 3-4 hours at a time."
E: "Oh yeah, that's my apprentice. Sorry, should've mentioned that."
OP: "I don't believe that's who she is."
E: "Well, I'm telling you she's been helping me."
OP: "I don't believe you."
E: "So? I'm telling you she's my apprentice."
Etc etc.
If he's lying to his wife he's not going to think twice about lying to OP even when this woman blatantly isn't his employee. OP's not actually filmed them having sex so how can she prove he's lying?

GnomeDePlume · 22/09/2022 14:04

3/4 hours seems an awful long time for any sort of shenanigans!

Is it possible that she is using the house plus your utilities, food, drinks rather than using her own: working from your home!

Still bad behaviour but maybe not as distracting.

Youaremysunshine14 · 22/09/2022 14:05

Youaremysunshine14 · 22/09/2022 14:03

I honestly can't work out how this is going to pan out. He invoices OP for eight full days, then what?
OP: "Actually, I can prove you didn't work eight full days, I have footage of someone coming onto my property to visit you for 3-4 hours at a time."
E: "Oh yeah, that's my apprentice. Sorry, should've mentioned that."
OP: "I don't believe that's who she is."
E: "Well, I'm telling you she's been helping me."
OP: "I don't believe you."
E: "So? I'm telling you she's my apprentice."
Etc etc.
If he's lying to his wife he's not going to think twice about lying to OP even when this woman blatantly isn't his employee. OP's not actually filmed them having sex so how can she prove he's lying?

Especially if they've seen any of the press reports about OP's thread and have worked out it's about them. They'll be ready with a story!

Youaremysunshine14 · 22/09/2022 14:06

GnomeDePlume · 22/09/2022 14:04

3/4 hours seems an awful long time for any sort of shenanigans!

Is it possible that she is using the house plus your utilities, food, drinks rather than using her own: working from your home!

Still bad behaviour but maybe not as distracting.

That's a really good point that I don't think has been made so far! She could be his niece/daughter/friend using OP's wifi to study/work!

BillyBobBear · 22/09/2022 14:11

Thank goodness, I thought I'd lost you.

NeckFanInSoftPlay · 22/09/2022 14:11

@PyongyangKipperbang I beg your fucking pardon? I can understand English perfectly fine thank you! You however, pop up on various threads, as the only one who cannot understand the narrative every bugger else can!

minmooch · 22/09/2022 14:13

Op this is now trending in my London so you may be forced to confront your tradesman?

picklemewalnuts · 22/09/2022 14:13

I'm mildly disappointed! I opened the thread out of concern about an electrical fault on one of those electric throws everyone's on about.

Little did I know it was a saga of infidelity and dishonesty!

SueDCreme · 22/09/2022 14:19

🧐👷🏠🔌🔦🔑🧰🪛

YesitsBess · 22/09/2022 14:32

SalviaOfficinalis · 22/09/2022 13:39

@iratepirate theres a little arrow at the top right of the thread. When you click it gives you the option to “watch thread”.
But it won’t come up on your “threads I’m on” list - only your “watching” list.

I have been here years and did not know that! Thankyou!

keffie12 · 22/09/2022 14:37

Thank you for not just disappearing on us 🙂 whatever the truth is he clearly isn't going to expect this.

I'm glad you have your O.H on side too. That's really important

Leila7654321 · 22/09/2022 14:37

I'll never look at a fluffy blanket the same way again

Brideandpredjudice · 22/09/2022 14:38

I usually try not to get overinvested in long running threads like these because the OP usually does a disappearing act and leaves everyone hanging.

I have faith that you'll update OP so here I am!

ItsaMetalBand · 22/09/2022 14:50

Leila7654321 · 22/09/2022 14:37

I'll never look at a fluffy blanket the same way again

The poster who said it's probably like hearing velcro rip apart when it's unfolded had me in bits laughing.

Summerslam · 22/09/2022 14:54

Ooh, thread 2, exciting!

Isthisexpected · 22/09/2022 15:14

Youaremysunshine14

I'm paying you X or telling your wife just how dedicated your apprentice is should cut it.

PicturesOfDogs · 22/09/2022 15:15

He’s piss taking (well, even more so than he was before) trying to get an extra days money out of you.
What a fucking dick

mrs55 · 22/09/2022 15:21

This is the best thread I’ve ever read on here

ThorsBedazzler · 22/09/2022 15:23

I hope his invoice is based on an hourly and not daily rate OP, giving you the chance to query if those days where the woman appeared he has billed you on the basis of two people working and not just him...

Tillow4ever · 22/09/2022 15:24

NeckFanInSoftPlay · 22/09/2022 14:11

@PyongyangKipperbang I beg your fucking pardon? I can understand English perfectly fine thank you! You however, pop up on various threads, as the only one who cannot understand the narrative every bugger else can!

What did they say/do? I can’t see them on this thread?

BruceAndNosh · 22/09/2022 15:24

I think the feeble excuse that visitor is innocently using op house to work from home won't fly as half the time her home has been without power, lighting or WiFi...

loislovesstewie · 22/09/2022 15:24

Oh god! I'm going to have hysterics when I see a fluffy blanket when I next go shopping, mad woman in aisle 12!