My neighbour is asking me to “cough up!” So earlier this month I took the DC to the beach for the day. When I arrived home there was a letter from the next door neighbour (elderly lady, lives alone) saying that all the banging from my house had caused a picture to fall off the wall, and she expected a contribution to the cost of having it reframed. I promptly popped over to get more detail. She said that it had happened at around 9:30pm the evening before and claims that there was horrendous banging coming from my house, I explained that my 20yr old DS sleeps in the room adjoining her house and that he wasn’t home until gone 11:30pm and went straight to bed, therefore he couldn’t have been banging anything. The wall between the two houses is also solid brick so I can’t see how she would hear any noise that couldn’t be heard from inside my own house, let alone cause such a vibration that it caused a picture to fly off the wall. After I explained, I thought that was the matter dealt with. Anyway yesterday she knocked round telling me that my DS has a big bill coming his way, I asked what for? and she said about the picture. (No longer asking for a contribution, wants DS to foot the whole bill) I explained again that no one was in the room so we cannot be responsible for her picture falling, her response was “So you’re not going to cough up?” I stayed polite and sympathised that her picture was broken but firmly let her know we would not be paying anything. She’s now saying she’ll get her family involved, which is fine, I will explain the same to them (If no one was there how could they be banging!) We are new to a small village and I fear this could escalate quickly into us being the scum of the village. AIBU to think it’s unfair for us to take the blame?
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
3367 votes. Final results.
POLLOnTheBrinkOfChange · 24/08/2022 23:45
Is there a chance they have dementia?
Keyansier · 24/08/2022 23:53
When in doubt, blame dementia.
mycatisannoying · 25/08/2022 00:11
Just because she's old, it doesn't mean she's doolally! I mean, it seems unlikely she'd make the whole thing up.
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL · 25/08/2022 00:14
She not old...
mycatisannoying · 25/08/2022 00:11
Just because she's old, it doesn't mean she's doolally! I mean, it seems unlikely she'd make the whole thing up.
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