Have a few genuine questions for people who are consistently late...(not strictly an AIBU thread)
What is it generally that makes you late? (e.g no time awareness of how long things/travel takes, being slow at tasks, poor planning??)
Would you be offended if a friend pulled you up on your lateness? (Consistent 15-30mins late per social meeting say, not the odd 5mins)
Do you get annoyed when you have a friend that "out-lates" you? Or do you just accept that time isn't an issue?
I'm really struggling with a late friend these days and just don't know if/how to address it. She is the sweetest girl ever but her time keeping is shocking and usually has me frustrated by the time she arrives thus setting the get-together off to a bad start.
AIBU?
Calling all LATE PEOPLE
scoobycute · 06/08/2022 11:33
LiarLiarKnickersAblaze · 07/08/2022 11:36
@tigger1001 those people sound awful and, like you said, you’re better off done with them.
Saw in another post you are studying as well as working full time and kids 💪 the only way to do that is to manage your time really well. You’re a rockstar 👩🏻🎤
SleeplessInEngland · 07/08/2022 14:57
I let a friendship fizzle out because of chronic lateness. I think it was the utter indifference that got to me in the end, not even an apology or acknowledgment that it might be annoying.
I sometimes wonder if it was her way of exerting control, but maybe that’s overthinking it.
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