Dd (10) loves stranger things and this w/e bought herself a hellfire club water bottle. She goes to a Christian school. The bottle says hellfire club and has an image of the devils head (as in the programme).
Aibu to let her use this water bottle as her school water bottle?? We are not a religious family and I personally think that this is just something from a tv programme (that is not in anyway about devil worshipping or anything actually related to the devil or religion - under those circumstances I might consider it insulting to Christians), and really is no different to her taking in a water bottle that's Harry Potter themed, or Star Wars etc.
The reason I'm even asking is because a couple of weeks ago dd made up this game where she draws the devil and gives him a 'health bar' like in a video game, and she asks you to think of things that might hurt him (e.g being hit by a car, throwing a spear at him, force feeding him cupcakes, being sat on by a giant panda - I've enjoyed the more inventive funny ones) and the health bar goes down until you kill him.
Just a silly thing she thought of and was doing in her notebook at some point during lunch break. Her teacher 'told her off' (I'm not sure how firmly it was said) and basically said it wasn't appropriate to be drawing a devil at a Christian school. So I'm thinking her teacher might also think it inappropriate to have this water bottle.
I personally don't see anything wrong with her having this water bottle (or the game!) and I'm happy to let her take it in tomorrow. But if her teacher tells her she can't have it then aibu to argue this with the teacher or should I just let it go and tell dd she can't take it in?
(Also apologies I'm using talk app so can't enable voting I don't think)
AIBU?
To let my dd take this to school
flightofthesevenmillionbumblebees · 10/07/2022 21:11
flightofthesevenmillionbumblebees · 10/07/2022 21:32
Ugh I meant to not say any more about her watching, but feel I should just add in that school are already aware she's watched it, and a fair few kids in her class have too. No concerns raised and I communicate often and very well with the staff so they've had plenty of opportunity.
RaggedBlousedPhilanthropist · 10/07/2022 21:31
Ask yourself this.
If you were a non-Muslim at a Muslim school, would you put ham sandwiches or pork cocktail sausages in her packed lunch or give her a water bottle that had an alcohol brand on it?
If yes- then it’s fine.
If no- then it’s not.
WishILivedInThrushGreen · 10/07/2022 21:36
If you're asking on here then you know that it's possibly offensive.
I wouldn't be advertising the fact that my child watches inappropriate material.
It's akin to sending a 9 year old in with a Grand Theft Auto water bottle.
Leave it at home.
flightofthesevenmillionbumblebees · 10/07/2022 21:11
Dd (10) loves stranger things and this w/e bought herself a hellfire club water bottle. She goes to a Christian school. The bottle says hellfire club and has an image of the devils head (as in the programme).
Aibu to let her use this water bottle as her school water bottle?? We are not a religious family and I personally think that this is just something from a tv programme (that is not in anyway about devil worshipping or anything actually related to the devil or religion - under those circumstances I might consider it insulting to Christians), and really is no different to her taking in a water bottle that's Harry Potter themed, or Star Wars etc.
The reason I'm even asking is because a couple of weeks ago dd made up this game where she draws the devil and gives him a 'health bar' like in a video game, and she asks you to think of things that might hurt him (e.g being hit by a car, throwing a spear at him, force feeding him cupcakes, being sat on by a giant panda - I've enjoyed the more inventive funny ones) and the health bar goes down until you kill him.
Just a silly thing she thought of and was doing in her notebook at some point during lunch break. Her teacher 'told her off' (I'm not sure how firmly it was said) and basically said it wasn't appropriate to be drawing a devil at a Christian school. So I'm thinking her teacher might also think it inappropriate to have this water bottle.
I personally don't see anything wrong with her having this water bottle (or the game!) and I'm happy to let her take it in tomorrow. But if her teacher tells her she can't have it then aibu to argue this with the teacher or should I just let it go and tell dd she can't take it in?
(Also apologies I'm using talk app so can't enable voting I don't think)
flightofthesevenmillionbumblebees · 10/07/2022 21:32
Ugh I meant to not say any more about her watching, but feel I should just add in that school are already aware she's watched it, and a fair few kids in her class have too. No concerns raised and I communicate often and very well with the staff so they've had plenty of opportunity.
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