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AIBU?

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Seen my friends husband on Bumble

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Curlyhairdonotcare · 06/06/2022 13:08

I seen my friends husband on Bumble on Friday night
I made video screen shot of entire profile - verified and fully filled out

I was at their wedding four years ago, she was fairly smug with how well their relationship had gone. Engaged after a short period of time, and married after 1 year. They met the week after she had a 6 year relationship ending and they did seem literally perfect for each other.

I tend to stay away from gossip but neither she or anyone else have intimated their relationship has broken down.
I have told no one I know about the dating profile.

AIBU to leave it and feel its none of my business?

OP posts:
GreenClock · 07/06/2022 22:38

She’s turning a blind eye which is her prerogative I guess. Well, your conscience is clear OP.

PurassicJark · 08/06/2022 13:41

GreenClock · 07/06/2022 22:38

She’s turning a blind eye which is her prerogative I guess. Well, your conscience is clear OP.

Well not sure she is, but yeah maybe she will do that. Although now someone close to her knows she may not. Hope she gets away from him.

Miscfeminista · 08/06/2022 14:17

Curlyhairdonotcare · 07/06/2022 16:07

All went fine. She said they have been arguing for a year - she did not seem so surprised actually. She said they have not had sex in about a year(!), he was spending loads of time outside and also he had started a new job (that she had funded his training for).

Oh god this kind of men make me sick. I guess they are waiting to save up to live separately or have some weird open relationship/"break"sort of thing before it all crumbles for good. Obviously just guessing. Still the guy makes me sick

Honeyroar · 08/06/2022 19:19

Well done OP. All you can do now is be there for her as she goes through this nasty time.

HogDogKetchup · 08/06/2022 19:55

Well done OP. I’m glad it was relatively pain free for you.

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