Told him how I feel and he has not responded

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I have been dating a man for a while and I’ve told him that I have developed feelings. I just wanted to get it off my chest to him how I feel. He read the message late last night and has not replied. Now my anxiety is kicking in and I think I may of ruined things. What would you do?

OP you are right, he is trying to string you along, keep you dangling on a piece of string so he can pull you in when he feels like it, then cast you out again.
Others have said to block him so he doesn't get the opportunity to keep playing with your emotions.
Keep busy, is there anyone you can meet up with tonight for company. Look after yourself first.

@AllTheYoungGoodyTwoShoes thank you. My confidence has really been knocked. I feel quite useless which I know is daft but I can’t help it. I still wish I never said anything to him about how I felt but what’s done is done. I am trying to keep busy and distract myself!

I think the reason I was drawn to him was because he is older. I haven’t had much luck in previous relationships with guys the same age as me but this has been a lesson learnt!

I still wish I never said anything to him about how I felt but what’s done is done.

You had the courage to find out sooner rather than later. You've done yourself a favour as you are now free to find someone truly compatible. Good luck