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DH friend or am I over reacting

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bibbitybobbitybugger · 20/04/2022 18:42

Hello all.
Name changed.

But of history.
But friendship group all married. Ranging in age.

Found out that husband has been messaging a friend daily since before lockdown.

Messages started as daily min dance how are you etc.

Since middle of last year the messages have become flirty and sexual. Cross boundaries for sure.
He says it's an inside joke.

Also they are now daily good morning and night
Kisses on them all.
Pet names and inside jokes.
Talking about other friends and partners etc.
Photos from him not her that I can see.

And he's said to her at Christmas that they are more than friends.

Messages were also when he was on a lad holiday and she was in hospital.

Am I over reacting as he thinks I am and that I'm doing this to stop a friendship.

OP posts:
CrowAndArrow · 24/04/2022 12:04

Really feel for you OP. What a disgusting man! It wouldn't suprise me if he used your MH against you.

PearPickingPorky · 24/04/2022 16:19

It's the coldness and complete disregard for you, your feelings, your marriage that's so shocking. Yet so much care for her.

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