Ok, he didn’t cheat. Fine. But the baby is still going to arrive in a few months time and I personally could not continue with a relationship where a child had been conceived with another woman during a brief period that we were broken up.
The baby was conceived during 6 months period OP and he were broken up that's not 'a brief period'. It's half a year.
It's not a betrayal
It's life that happens. He is allowed to have sex with people when he was single!
So many controlling responses . Bear in mind that OP has his 2DCs living with her so how she behaves of her views or anger will have a larger impact on him than if she was any other girlfriend
OP and this man have only been back together a couple months since November.
Nice MNers would be telling OP to encourage him to see his baby when born & to support his ex gf (new mum2B) . Baby has a right to know his dad.
I don't think it's fair that anyone on here is winding OP up about this -falsely calling it cheating or a betrayal- which may feed into why he feels he has to say he'll have nothing to do this baby (or his ex-gf baby's mum)
OP may be upset, and I can understand that- but there are bigger issues than her feelings. He did tell her about the baby, maybe should have told her earlier but there's still 4 months before baby is born. DP had a right to need time to process his feelings about baby too.
PPs in here have encouraged her to throw him out though! Over this. Probably bc OP hadn't said the full story or said it so vaguely PPs weren't realising.