To ask if you orgasm during sex

[Tootaloo]

This is something that's always made me feel different to other women, for some reason. I've NEVER been able to orgasm during sex, ever. Or through any type of penetration.

Is this quite common?

YABU - Yes, you're able to
YANBU - No, you can't either

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There was some discussion in another poist about periods being a design flaw. This could be another one.

For men it seems one technique will always with, but we've got to figure it out ourselves individually

Correction...For men it seems one technique will always work.

Agree with @feedmemincepies - get a we-vibe! Amazing.

I can orgasm through penetration only with some partners (not to date with DH unfortunately!). We have lots of other options that do the job and the we-vibe is something you need in your life :)