that it's not ok to kick out a guest from a party

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If a guess of one family member has a conflict with another family member but behaves generally in a civilized way, talking to other people. As soon as a small altercation occurs, that guest is told to that he's not welcome and to get out of the house while a group of people walking towards him pushing him to the door not even allowing him to pick up their coat from a room (the host went to get it).

AIBU to think that it's very exagerrated? What WOULD justify this reaction? A physical fight?

Why should a nob be permitted to stay just because he's talking to other people? The host doesn't want him there, the host can kick him out.

If a number of people were shoving him out he sounds like a right tosser.

Anyone involved in an altercation should be removed for the safety of everyone else.

What makes this guest a potential exception?

Up to the host at the end of the day.

They did something to deserve it.

Completely up to the host to decide who they would like at their party

Hosts prerogative to have whoever they do or do not want, in their home.

Depends on what the altercation was and the history.

Yabu. It's totally up to the host I think. It obviously bothered them enough to chuck them out.

Totally up to the host.

Sounds like there’s history. Just tell the story, much easier than theoreticals!

Define small altercation.... fairly sure removal was justified.

"behaves generally in a civilized way"
"a small altercation"

Sounds like they were a real delight.

Small altercation? As in physical?

Well no one should have to be pushed to the door unless they're being belligerent and refusing to leave

Up to the host really. Im not sure why the person speaking to other guests civilly has any bearing on it?

It sounds like someone has been verbally abusive and made to leave after upsetting another guest - fair enough imo if that is the case.

If I have an invited guest who has been part of a 'small altercation' and I feel I don't want them there anymore, I can absolutely ask them to leave and if other guests want to help facilitate that, they're welcome to do so. It's my house, why should I suffer entertaining someone I don't want around?

I guarantee there's more to this story .

You are talking in such vague terms. But have indicated the guest had an altercation with someone and was asked to leave but did not. So other family members guided them out and collected their coat fit them to go . I hope they left quietly once outside .

If someone was causing trouble at my house, so badly that I had to ask them to leave, then I would want them out quickly and quietly ASAP .

Up to the host.

Ita going to depend on the whole situation.

I am guessing the altercation wasn't small or was the proverbial straw.

As the person was invited then asked to leave. They were obviously wanted there, then the host changed their mind.

Sounds like you're minimising to manipulate the vote.

Why were they both invited to begin with if they can't be civil to I e another. The host should have only invited one. Next time maybe they will.

It is totally up to the host. And "small altercation" could mean absolutely anything.

Why do you think a "small altercation" should be inoffensive? Totally depends what it was and what was said.

Was it you who was ejected?

Host rules

Did you piss someone off, OP?

There’s someone within DHs family who regularly does this; they are fine with others but often argue with one particular person and they are the one that starts it so we ask that person to leave immediately once they start