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to be annoyed DH is going on a stag weekend to Amsterdam?

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JinglyJangly · 10/12/2007 18:57

DH is going on a stag weekend after Christmas to Amsterdam and too be honest, I am not too happy about it. I have heard what really goes on and why men go there, i.e. sex shops, brothels, live sex shows etc.

The blokes he is going with are a bunch of knobs. I have heard the majority of them frequent these types of places (only from what DH has said).

DH went on a stag weekend to Edinburgh a few years back and the guy who's stag party it was, was well up for visiting a brothel and guess what? he is going on the stag weekend to Amsterdam .

AIBU to be annoyed about him going? I am feeling a bit down in the dumps today and keep thinking all sorts about what they will get up too.

Whatever happened to guys going for a few beers at the local? It seems the norm for stag weekends to be held abroad nowadays. WHY is that?

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JinglyJangly · 12/12/2007 22:38

sorry slim22

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MotherFunk · 12/12/2007 22:38

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StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:41

I had a lovely violinist boyfriend there

He was almost as pretty as me

JinglyJangly · 12/12/2007 22:41

So the barmen are up for it then MF? My mate is very shy though so will have to down a bottle of voddy first .

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slim22 · 12/12/2007 22:41

currently in singapore, pg and insomniac. It's 6.40 am and been lurking since 4am!!!

I lived in Amsterdam before coming here.

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:41

Amsterdam is very friendly

bunnyhunny · 12/12/2007 22:42

oh yes, the coffee shops.
would love to go back and see the proper amsterdam. we were only 18.
(sorry for hijack, will leave now )

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:43

Sweet. Its worth looking at all the art

JinglyJangly · 12/12/2007 22:47

slim22 - you poor thing, get a compulsory 2 day stay in bed when you get home.

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MotherFunk · 12/12/2007 22:48

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StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:49

Oh for goodness sake MotherFunk I've been here since its inception

MotherFunk · 12/12/2007 22:50

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StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:52

You do seem to keep wanting my attention motherFunk

JinglyJangly · 12/12/2007 22:54

Maybe MF is getting annoyed by your posts Star?

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StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:54

Like an irritating 17 year old boy would

madamez · 12/12/2007 22:55

Hang on, are some of you really suggesting that it would be appropriate to tell your children, for instance, how many times a week you have (loving, married, in the missionary position) sex every week? Or that you only have an orgasm through oral sex? While it's a good thing to discuss sex in general terms with your children ie letting them know that you will answer any questions they have in a sensible manner, and listen to their worries, I think few people would be comfortable with discussing the details of their personal sexual preferences with either their parents or their children.

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:56

Then I suggest she stop reading them

QuintessentialShadowOfSnowball · 12/12/2007 22:57

No Madamez, Star made the shocking statement that as an adult you should only do the sort of thing you can talk to your children about comfortably:

By StarofBethleCam on Wed 12-Dec-07 21:24:59
If its not something you can talt to your children about why would you feel comfortable with it

QuintessentialShadowOfSnowball · 12/12/2007 22:58

But star seem to have trip trap qualities anyway...

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:59

I meant as an indication of whether it was ok to do something or not

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 22:59

yes yes I'm a troll, ask anybody

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 23:05

I'm going to trot off and watch the Pink Floyd documentary now. They were so amazing when I saw them at Knebworth in about 1974.

JinglyJangly · 12/12/2007 23:08

enjoy .

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StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 23:08

In fact when I was 17, girl though not boy

StarofBethleCam · 12/12/2007 23:09

Why the JJ