How would you take this?

[WhatAPickledOnion]

I’ve recently given birth to a beautiful baby girl. Throughout the pregnancy sex was actually non-existent.

Since having the baby DH has wanted it non-stop.

We were giggling and messing around today and I said “I’ve got my stallion back” he turned around and said “well yeah I’ve got nothing to release into now.”

How would you take this statement? I’m just so disgusted and told him what I thought he was implying by that statement but think I’m being gaslighted as he says I’m over reacting and it doesn’t mean what I think.

What would that statement imply to you?

What a horrible statement. He sounds like he's being derogatory about your vagina

Weird statement but I'd likely take it as some reference to my vagina not being as tight. And I'd be disgusted by him too. Interested to see what his explanation was.

“I’ve got nothing to release into now” - sex life back to normal with me.

I don't even know what that means. And what did you mean by I've got my stallion back?? Weird exchange all round.

I have no idea what he meant.

I mean the stallion comment is just as bad to me 😂

To me I've understood that he was perhaps sorting himself out (self release) and now he isn't doing that, so nothing to release into as he's having intercourse with you again?

What did you take it as?

@TheGrumpyGoat

I have no idea what he meant.

Me either

What is he saying he meant? To me it sounds like he's saying that now he wants it but can't have it as it's too soon after ie not six weeks yet or you're not ready yet. If that's not the case then is he saying you're not tight enough for his liking any more? If so then he's being a dick - what did he expect??!!

What does he say he meant by it?

Don’t get it either 😣

I don't get it and your stallion comment is a bit grim

What did you think he meant?
I'm confused, no idea at all if this was derogatory or not

No we are having it constantly at the moment - that’s why I mentioned stallion, it’s non-stop since I’m not preggers anymore.

“I’ve got my stallion back” “Well yeah I’ve got nothing to release into now.”

What did you mean by your comment? That he was horny and hard? If so, I don't understand his comment. Having 'nothing to release into' suggests your vagina doesn't exist. Do you think by that he meant it's too saggy now?

Doesn’t matter how many times you write it, I still don’t get what he means, or what you think it means 😂

Still no idea

I honestly wouldn’t know what he meant.

Only thing I could think is the baby isn’t in there to “release into” now. Which is gross. But then stallion is cringe as hell too.

What does he say he meant?

Tbh if you are happy post baby, mutually enjoying lots of sex and having lots of fun I would really let this one go!

And wish people wouldn’t use “gaslighting” so quickly.

I really don't get it.

Did he mean that while you were pregnant he would have been “releasing into” the baby? That’s what I took from it, which is gross but sadly not an uncommon view, that by having sex he’d be somehow coming into close contact with the baby.

Did he mean he has nothing left in him? I’m confused. Even if your vagina was huge it would still be something to ‘release into’ surely? The whole conversation is odd.

I’ve got no idea what it means because if you’re back at it, he’s releasing in to you surely?! Very crude I know.

Ok I’ll tell you how I took it but I am prone for jumping to conclusions.

Sex was non-existent during pregnancy! We had so many conversations about it but he said he just didn’t fancy it, I was absolutely heartbroken and self-esteem took a massive hit.

I assumed he must’ve been getting it elsewhere because he just didn’t fancy me anymore.

Now I’m no longer pregnant it is non-stop. I’m assuming he’s called it off with his “rent-a-vagina” and come back to his wife now I’m back to a size 8 - nice easy labour no tears during birth etc.

Sex is non-stop.

“I’ve got my stallion back” “well yeah I’ve got nothing to release into now”

Baby thing makes more sense. Who says release

I don’t think the conclusion you’ve jumped to makes any sense.
I also don’t think that what he said makes any sense.
Did you ask him when he meant by it?

That still doesn’t make sense though @WhatAPickledOnion because surely he’s ‘releasing’ into you? Must be the baby he meant. What does he say he meant?