How would you take this?

[WhatAPickledOnion]

I’ve recently given birth to a beautiful baby girl. Throughout the pregnancy sex was actually non-existent.

Since having the baby DH has wanted it non-stop.

We were giggling and messing around today and I said “I’ve got my stallion back” he turned around and said “well yeah I’ve got nothing to release into now.”

How would you take this statement? I’m just so disgusted and told him what I thought he was implying by that statement but think I’m being gaslighted as he says I’m over reacting and it doesn’t mean what I think.

What would that statement imply to you?

You still haven't explained what he thinks he meant though!

Your explanation makes no sense OP because he has got something to release into now. You.

I’m so confused. I don’t know what he meant and I don’t get what you thought he meant.

I’m not speaking to him, told him I’m disgusted, he was just like a deer in headlights after saying it.

I’m assuming he had a “rent-a-vagina” during my pregnancy because he didn’t fancy me.

Then called it off when I had given birth.

“I’ve not got anything to release into anymore” I’m implying I’ve called it off with my mistress now you’re no longer pregnant that’s why my sex drive is so high with you.

Both of your statements are gross, but I think you’re letting your insecurities from your pregnancy influence your interpretation here OP. I would assume he didn’t like the idea of his dick near the baby as PPs have said.

However if you genuinely think that’s what he meant that there must be some relationship issues… either he’s cheated or you have massive trust issues (or both).

“I’ve not got anything to release into anymore” I’m implying I’ve called it off with my mistress now you’re no longer pregnant that’s why my sex drive is so high with you

No one else is seeing that implication into his words, just you. It doesn’t make any sense.

I would never think what you think he means. But, I wouldn't have sex with someone who I suspect had a mistress while I was pregnant.

Well, I'm confused. And you continuously repeating the conversation isn't really helping matters, OP.

It doesn't make sense. Any conclusion I try to draw from the doest really make sense. It's such a weird think to say.

OP have you tried out for the olympics?? Because that's the biggest jump to a conclusion I've ever seen.

Your take doesn't make sense as he does have "something to release it into" 🤮. You.

I don't understand

@WhatAPickledOnion ffs ask him! I think your conclusion is a bit bonkers tbh. And he’s ‘releasing’ into you so the statement doesn’t make any sense.

But surely he would have said now I've got something to release into not nothing to release into. None of this makes any sense. What does he say he meant? Have you any other reason to believe he'd been seeing someone else?

The whole conversation is a bit gross but I think you're reading something into it which isn't there at all. DH didn't want sex during pregnancy - I assumed it was because he felt weird about it rather than he was having sex elsewhere. The latter wouldn't have even occurred to me.

Go ask him what he ment OP instead of just saying he's disgusting and not talking to him, and ce back and tell us.
You remind me of someone I know. They're stories makes no sense and are ways a bit disjointed and weird.

OP….
Either he’s cheated while pregnant, or you have massive trust issues. Either way, it’s not a healthy relationship. How is your relationship normally? Does he have form for cheating? Do you have form for accusing him of cheating?

You thought he was having an affair your entire pregnancy? Or hiring prostitutes? Why didn't you confront this?

I don't know what he meant but definitely wouldn't have thought he meant he was sleeping about. It sounds like he was having banter after your banterish comment about being a stallion. He might have meant that there is nothing in the way now. Btw I'm pregnant and DH doesn't want it, he says it feels weird with the baby being there. This happens to lots of men but I don't think for one second he is sleeping about. I think your emotions are all over the place so I would try not to look into it too much and enjoy your new family life and your great sex life.

That’s what I mean he would never normally say such a derogatory statement like “I’ve got nothing to release into anymore” it’s like he’s talking derogatory about some slag and now he’s back with his wife.

Another one baffled here

And you say you assumed he was sleeping with someone else throughout your pregnancy… but you were happy to continue your relationship and resume your normal sex life with him once the baby was born?

To me it sounds like he's calling your vagina loose. But then your interpretation is also a weird conclusion. As was your original comment so who knows.

I can see why you'd jump to that conclusion, it actually makes more sense than some of the things other posters came up with.

Unless he had some kind of sex aid/doll and it's gone now that you're not pregnant anymore.