... to ask if you were in love with the person you first had sex with?

[MissMojoRising]

Something I've been thinking about recently, and had a discussion with friends. Were you in love with the first person you had PIV with?

I was not. Had a BF, I did like him, everyone else was at it, so we did it.

Not looking for any details, just a yes/no vote is OK

YES: I was in love
NO: I was not in love

God no. I was 15 and barely knew him.

Another yes and still married to him!

Yes very much. Too much and ended up heart broken.

I was 19 and thought I loved him. We were together 3 years until he cheated on me.

Met DH-to-be and slept with him before I loved him. Married 3 years later and together 49 years in all. I really really loved him.

To add, I was mid teens (40s now, and l’m still not sure l know what “in love” is!) I didn’t think it was a big deal or anything. I never subscribed to this lost virginity nonsense. Nothing was lost. I’m s

Yes, and I married him.
Sadly divorced 21 years later, still regret that even now.....

Yes as much as you can be at 16.. was very much a first love.

Yes

No. I was very fond of him and felt entirely safe though.

No, I was 15 and pressured.

Big no: was 15 and very drunk ….. 😢🤦‍♀️

No but he was very fit and I really fancied him. He was not a nice person though.

No.
A holiday romance.

No, and it was crap

Yes

Is besotted the same as love?

Yes

Yes, he was my first almost everything except kids and marriage. 6 years together when we were kids. It seems like a lifetime away.

Yes

No. It was a boyfriend who I thought at the time I loved, but looking back, not really. Glad I got it out the way with him though, he was nice, and kind, so could've been much worse.

Yes and we were 16 when we got together and still together now almost 15 years later :)

No.

Massively in lust though. He had a whopper of a penis although I only realised that after I'd been with a couple more guys and wondered why theirs were so much smaller.

Yes. Very much in love. I was 17 and he was 18 and it was the first time for him too. Together 3 years and I think had it been later in life we might well have stayed together.
I didn't go on to have a relationship as good until I met my now DP when I was 30! 20s were very much flings and pretty unmemorable experiences sex and relationshipwise!

Yes

Yes