... to ask if you were in love with the person you first had sex with?

[MissMojoRising]

Something I've been thinking about recently, and had a discussion with friends. Were you in love with the first person you had PIV with?

I was not. Had a BF, I did like him, everyone else was at it, so we did it.

Not looking for any details, just a yes/no vote is OK

YES: I was in love
NO: I was not in love

I think I was in the kind of love a 16 year old was capable of! Nothing like the love I feel for my husband, but all consuming and lovely at that age!

Yes. I was 16 he was 17. We're now mid 30s and still do. Xx

No. I was also 15. Infatuated maybe but also pressured into it looking back