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... to ask if you were in love with the person you first had sex with?

253 replies

MissMojoRising · 02/08/2021 13:13

Something I've been thinking about recently, and had a discussion with friends. Were you in love with the first person you had PIV with?

I was not. Had a BF, I did like him, everyone else was at it, so we did it.

Not looking for any details, just a yes/no vote is OK

YES: I was in love
NO: I was not in love

OP posts:
Tittyfilarious81 · 02/08/2021 13:48

Yes and I married him Smile

noblegreenk · 02/08/2021 13:48

I was very much infatuated but not in love with him.

ABitOfAShitShow · 02/08/2021 13:50

Nope. Nor did I think I was or he was. Not even close.

TheDogsMother · 02/08/2021 13:50

@Baileyscheesecake I'm so sorry Flowers

1forAll74 · 02/08/2021 13:53

No not in love, an event with some high passion is not love.

FleshLiabilities · 02/08/2021 13:56

Yes. We took our time. And she's still the only woman I've ever been in love with.

Blankspace4 · 02/08/2021 13:58

Infatuated, not in love.

He dumped me shortly after too….the b*stard

redtshirt50 · 02/08/2021 13:58

definitely not

DramaAlpaca · 02/08/2021 13:59

Yes

MrsTophamHat · 02/08/2021 14:00

Yes

Yutes · 02/08/2021 14:01

Yes, I absolutely was. Not with them now, but my first time was a good experience

FastFood · 02/08/2021 14:02

Haha no I just wanted to get it done!

FullMoonInsomnia · 02/08/2021 14:03

No

IonaLeg · 02/08/2021 14:03

Yes

DustyMaiden · 02/08/2021 14:04

Yes and I married him.

ColettesEarrings · 02/08/2021 14:05

In love, yes? Loved him? No.

Ginmakesitallok · 02/08/2021 14:05

No, not at all. Both v drunk though.

Apileofballyhoo · 02/08/2021 14:06

Yes.

PumpkinKlNG · 02/08/2021 14:06

No

backtothefuture · 02/08/2021 14:08

I personally don't get the total focus on PIV as some sort of achievement or milestone? With not oral? Or even fingers? First fingers for me were wow Blush

... oh ... and a definite NO for me. Looking back it was borderline rape.

yellowspot · 02/08/2021 14:08

Nope. Though I love him more than anything now. First serious boyfriend, we were teens. Have been together ever since.

NuffSaidSam · 02/08/2021 14:09

No.

Met on holiday, slept together on the last night. Never saw him again. Didn't even swap numbers. It was great.

NikkiBK · 02/08/2021 14:10

No. I was 14. I'd already experienced the delightful notion of "fingering" and reciprocating and decided ever so maturely that virginity was surely not special if you'd already done other sexy stuff. 🙄

MedusasBadHairDay · 02/08/2021 14:10

Yes. He hadn't turned into an abusive jealous controlling psycho at that point.

Wolframhart · 02/08/2021 14:13

Yes, we eventually married (though did divorce)