Did I deserve this

[Clappingforjoy]

Okay I am aware that I could be partly at fault.
A relation has recently bought a house and she was on Facebook showing off the new keys and generally saying how happy she is and how good her dh is. Her dh my dn is a hard worker good with saving etc I agreed and said yes your lucky he works hard and us good with moneyto which she said I'm not lucky we both contributed to the house.
I just said fair enough I hadn't meant it like that and I would say no more I was probably a bit sharp I see that now. Then I gets a comment off her 15 year old saying pity I haven't dropped in that luck with a laughing face did I do wrong and deserve this.

[PurpleWaterBlue]

It does rather sound like you are saying, to paraphrase all your posts,

MY nephew worked and saved his tits off and bought a house for his pissed up little cunt of a wife and their daughter is a gobby little cow for sticking up for her own mum.

That's purely the message I am getting from your words, not saying for certain that was your intent but you're not coming across well here. Very sexist and dismissive of the nephews wife. You don't even bother to state her contribution, even on here for clarification.

[Hannayeah]

Wow! @PurpleWaterBlue. That’s really over the top.

[GreyhoundG1rl]

@PurpleWaterBlue

It does rather sound like you are saying, to paraphrase all your posts,

MY nephew worked and saved his tits off and bought a house for his pissed up little cunt of a wife and their daughter is a gobby little cow for sticking up for her own mum.

That's purely the message I am getting from your words, not saying for certain that was your intent but you're not coming across well here. Very sexist and dismissive of the nephews wife. You don't even bother to state her contribution, even on here for clarification.

You certainly have paraphrased

[SchrodingersImmigrant]

Ok, like I am in team "op was rude" but wowza.
You ok @PurpleWaterBlue ? Don't sound like👀

[imamule]

MY nephew worked and saved his tits off and bought a house for his pissed up little cunt of a wife and their daughter is a gobby little cow for sticking up for her own mum.

Wow 😆

[PieceOfString]

Blimey op, if you haven't stepped away already, I'd do it, all this vitriol for one foot in mouth moment!

[Bluntness100]

@PurpleWaterBlue

It does rather sound like you are saying, to paraphrase all your posts,

MY nephew worked and saved his tits off and bought a house for his pissed up little cunt of a wife and their daughter is a gobby little cow for sticking up for her own mum.

That's purely the message I am getting from your words, not saying for certain that was your intent but you're not coming across well here. Very sexist and dismissive of the nephews wife. You don't even bother to state her contribution, even on here for clarification.

That’s quite harsh, pissed up little cunt? 😱

I agree it was a bitter resentful sexist comment the op made, and totally uncalled for, but I think it’s a bit much to say she was thinking that about his wife.

[Userg1234]

Oh but we know purple blue water...that's exactly what the op meant ... Who mentions that it's all down to the man unless they really, really think the woman is trailer park trash?

[VodselForDinner]

@PurpleWaterBlue

It does rather sound like you are saying, to paraphrase all your posts,

MY nephew worked and saved his tits off and bought a house for his pissed up little cunt of a wife and their daughter is a gobby little cow for sticking up for her own mum.

That's purely the message I am getting from your words, not saying for certain that was your intent but you're not coming across well here. Very sexist and dismissive of the nephews wife. You don't even bother to state her contribution, even on here for clarification.

Who hurt you?

[Hannayeah]

I’ve never even heard those phrases. It’s difficult to imagine anyone that respects women actually typing them out.

[Sadiecow]

@PurpleWaterBlue

It does rather sound like you are saying, to paraphrase all your posts,

MY nephew worked and saved his tits off and bought a house for his pissed up little cunt of a wife and their daughter is a gobby little cow for sticking up for her own mum.

That's purely the message I am getting from your words, not saying for certain that was your intent but you're not coming across well here. Very sexist and dismissive of the nephews wife. You don't even bother to state her contribution, even on here for clarification.

Crikey, how over the top!

OP stop using Facebook!

[Bluntness100]

@Userg1234

Oh but we know purple blue water...that's exactly what the op meant ... Who mentions that it's all down to the man unless they really, really think the woman is trailer park trash?

Generally it’s more about deeply sexist behaviour I think when someone makes comments like this, the old mans the provider and women along for the ride shit.

[hiya89]

@Clappingforjoy

Okay I am aware that I could be partly at fault.
A relation has recently bought a house and she was on Facebook showing off the new keys and generally saying how happy she is and how good her dh is. Her dh my dn is a hard worker good with saving etc I agreed and said yes your lucky he works hard and us good with moneyto which she said I'm not lucky we both contributed to the house.
I just said fair enough I hadn't meant it like that and I would say no more I was probably a bit sharp I see that now. Then I gets a comment off her 15 year old saying pity I haven't dropped in that luck with a laughing face did I do wrong and deserve this.

People that show off like that deserve it. There's no need to go bragging online especially when it's down to the other person. I know someone who did the same thing. Would have never been able to afford on her own on her average salary and being a spendahoki

[hiya89]

*spendaholic and her boyfriend earns £20k more than her and she's posting about what "she's" achieved against all odds. She did nothing. He owned a house and sold it, that's deposit covered, he would have had 5 digit savings even before they met because of his salary and being careful with money. She paid nothing towards the mortgage he had before. He bought the house, it's just under her name as well.