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AIBU?

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To have said no to this boy taking DD to the park?

207 replies

vors · 21/07/2021 10:05

About a month ago, DD (almost 3) made friends with a girl at the park, she's about the same age, she was at the Park with her uncle (about 15/16). Since then, whenever DD sees the boy she says hello to him or waves. Yesterday, I was with DD and we saw the boy and the little girl, DD said hello to both of them and then the boy told me he was taking her to the park and asked if DD wanted to go with them, I said no but cue a massive tantrum from DD.

I told my DH and he said I should've let her go as i would know where she was and that I'm being overprotective by saying no, but i don't even know the boy, I only know his name and his age!

Aibu?

OP posts:
pleasedonttextmyman · 22/07/2021 11:59

I hope MN will do something about posters who find rape and rape victims funny, if that makes you laugh. I leave them to it.

Biscuit
GreyhoundG1rl · 22/07/2021 12:15

@pleasedonttextmyman

I hope MN will do something about posters who find rape and rape victims funny, if that makes you laugh. I leave them to it.

Biscuit

There aren't any. If you see any; just report and MNHQ will delete them.
AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 22/07/2021 12:16

@pleasedonttextmyman

I hope MN will do something about posters who find rape and rape victims funny, if that makes you laugh. I leave them to it.

Biscuit

I was laughing at you.

I personally think you’ve been incredibly offensive, calling rape victims “bitter and completely unreasonable”

I’m laughing at your attempt to goad me into some kind of name calling back and forth.

I’m laughing at your transparency.

Cheeserton · 22/07/2021 12:32

No bloody way. Far too young to be allowing her off with random teenagers.

Itsbeen84yearss · 22/07/2021 12:36

Ha ha! Not a chance in hell would mine have gone. The kid could be a little weirdo for all you know

Itsbeen84yearss · 22/07/2021 12:40

Also think it’s a worrying response from your husband. Not sure id be happy leaving him to supervise my child based on his, clearly poor, decision making

livingwitheds1984 · 22/07/2021 15:31

Saying that rape victims who choose not to let their children be alone with strange men are "bitter and completely unreasonable."

Wow. WOW.

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