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AIBU?

To have pomped my horn?

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Friedmushroom · 13/04/2021 23:24

Will try and keep this quick Grin but I’m so annoyed by the car park stand off I’ve just had that I need to know AIBU?

So, I’ve just been parked up in a dark car park, in a dark coloured car, no lights on. Another car pulls up and starts to reverse into the space right next to me, which is a disabled spot so huuuuge, and with plenty of other spaces around. Car reverses at a funny angle, at speed, and VERY close to my car, so close both passenger and me think it’s going to make contact.

I pomp my horn, car keeps coming so I lean on horn. Driver peers round at me shouting and gesticulating. She finishes parking (with me and passenger both wincing), winds window down and starts having a go.

Apparently I’m BU to have pomped as she has reversing cameras so knew I was there. My stand point is; you were literally an inch away from my car (when there’s two whole empty spaces to play with), I don’t know you have cameras, I was warning you that I was there. Car accidents happen every single day so I was making sure you didn’t hit me. She thought this was a ridiculous point and can obviously drive properly as she has passed her test Hmm, “people wouldn’t pass their test if they didn’t know how to park”.

I’m so annoyed by her attitude, but she clearly thought I was completely ridiculous. I think it would have been ridiculous for me to have sat in my car and just allowed her to reverse into it. So Mumsnet, AIBU?

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Quirrelsotherface · 14/04/2021 06:25

Here for the pomping.

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Sparklingbrook · 14/04/2021 06:28

Pomped is my word of the day now and will be shoehorning it into conversations at work later. Grin

I’m a honker. And might have honked in the same situation.

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joystir59 · 14/04/2021 06:33

I only started reading the thread to find out what "pomping my horn" was Grin

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joystir59 · 14/04/2021 06:35

I hoped it might be sexual Grin

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SavingsQuestions · 14/04/2021 06:40

I still wondered after all the horn pomping happened in a dark carpark!

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NellePorter · 14/04/2021 06:49

Late to the party I know but "pomped" did make me laugh! I've only ever heard beeped, sounded and honked (latter American?). Possibly peeped or parped on Noddy. Where are all you pippers and bippers from? Grin

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speakout · 14/04/2021 06:55

Pomp! I love it!!

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DobbyTheHouseElk · 14/04/2021 06:58

Here we honk or beep. Some people bip. I prefer to honk.

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ErniesGhostlyGoldTops · 14/04/2021 07:00

Honked? Please no one say parped again!

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mamajules32 · 14/04/2021 07:02

Omg pomped 😂😂😂

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mamajules32 · 14/04/2021 07:03

Surely a typo?

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Foolintherain · 14/04/2021 07:05

It's a normal thing to say where I live?

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TheGumption · 14/04/2021 07:08

The horn on the bus goes pomp pomp pomp!

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ginandvomit · 14/04/2021 07:08

I'm going to pomp my horn next time. Much more delicate thank hooting or honking

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GeorgeandHarold66 · 14/04/2021 07:10

@Friedmushroom

Grin ‘Pomped’ is fairly common up here (Lancashire) wonder if it’s a regional thing?

GrinI grew up in Lancashire and have never pomped in my life..... bloody love it though, it could catch on.

And no yanbu he was driving like a dick!
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userxx · 14/04/2021 07:14

Is it too early to go and pomp on the drive, I desperately want to.

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SavingsQuestions · 14/04/2021 07:16

Google really isn't coming up with much for pomp and horn (other than pomp and circumstance!) Or dictionary entries. I'm guessing very localised - language is fascinating and I'd never have heard so many regional variations without mumsnet!

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SavingsQuestions · 14/04/2021 07:16

User 😁😁

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DobbyTheHouseElk · 14/04/2021 07:18

@TheGumption

The horn on the bus goes pomp pomp pomp!

Where I am “the horn on the bus, goes beep beep beep” when I was a child and for my DC. I’d love to pomp the horn though.

Isn’t it interesting.
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Foolintherain · 14/04/2021 07:20

It's like no one ever heard of regional words.

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Covert19 · 14/04/2021 07:21

YANBU. I would have done the same. I've had people do it to me - I was a bit put out that they doubted my skills, but could understand their nervousness. Your parking woman clearly has issues.

Love "Pomped". It's the perfect onamatopoeia.

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LegArmpits · 14/04/2021 07:24

I say pomped too! South Wales. 😂

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Marmaladeagain · 14/04/2021 07:31

YANBU - it would be normal on hearing the noise to stop and acknowledge/interact with you to reassure you’ve been seen etc. So that’s the issue for me.

Maybe a Lancashire horn has a fuller timbre as mine goes ‘bib’ which is short for ‘bib bib’, don’t hear pomps round here.

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goldielockdown2 · 14/04/2021 07:42

'Pomped' 🤣 (I had to type that three times because it was autocorrecting to 'pimped')

Er, yeah you were being a weirdo anyway.

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2pinkginsplease · 14/04/2021 07:42

I’ve always loved how we are all from the uk But we different words for different things,

Never heard of pomped or bibbed.

We use tooted or beeped.

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