to think Swinging is disgusting? (long rant sorry)

[TanishasMum]

I have a problem with friends of ours that are into swinging - she even likes women iykwim?. The thing is, DH likes this couple and don't get me wrong they are a nice couple but I feel very uncomfortable around them especially her as she constantly talks about sex and what they get up to with other couples (makes me feel sick).

Anyway, we meet up with them once a month for a drink/meal and their DD is the same age as ours but AIBU to not want to bother with this couple anymore? My DH likes them though - I think her constant flirting flatters him she is rather big breasted and she asks him jokingly if he wants a feel . I am not exaggerating about this, she is the biggest flirt I have ever met in my life.

I think DH is more than happy to continue the friendship but I am not. I am defo not into swinging but I am wondering if my DH secretly wants to . So AIBU?

See you up there in 5. I'll be the one waving my norks in your face!

i shall enjoy that

Trust DH to notice this thread

Friends of ours have been married for 15 years and have made it clear to us they would like to spice up their sex life and both of them have agreed to try swinging. DH and I personally have no interest and made it clear to them we are not interested.

Anyway, we haven't seen them for ages and as far as we know they were still in the process of really 'thinking about it' but obviously want to give it a go.

DH had a text off them Thursday to say they were meeting their first so called friends/swinging couple on Saturday (tomorrow).

I told DH I no longer feel the same about them anymore. I still want to remain friends with them but the swinging thing has really put me off.

I totally know how you feel Op. Dh just thinks it hilarious. It obviously doesn't bother him. It has really put me off them.

with a name like jimmyjammas, you don't sound the swinging type

I most definatly aint the swinging type pointy (glad you noticed that by my username).

Each to their own and all that.

When things get that boring in a marriage surely there are other things to try/do before trying swinging ewwwwwwwww its gross. Imagine how many sexual partners each person would have