To date when pregnant?

[frabbit]

I’m 15 weeks pregnant, single. Father of baby wants to be involved with baby but that’s as far as things go. We don’t see each other outside of scans and appointments, and we barely talk at the moment.

Would it be gross to consider dating? Not looking for financial support or a baby daddy, genuinely just missing the support and companionship, maybe even the attention, of a dating partner. Obviously would be taking things slow. I’ve been chatting to someone and he’s asked me out on a date. If I do go, do I tell him beforehand that I’m pregnant? Or wait to see how the date goes?

What’s the general consensus?

[quote BobsYerUnclee]@Wheresmykimchi Wouldn't discuss casual sex.

My other point was, if i was pregnant from a casual relationship, I wouldn't be looking for another. If I needed attention so desperately, I'd be soul searching to find out why that was.

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You wouldn't discuss casual sex but you dropped the vibrator comment...you confuse me.

High quality journalism there DM

@Wheresmykimchi

No, you're reading this wrong. I said we wouldn't discuss it further. I already said I think it's rank having casual sex whilst you're pregnant.

You purposely keep picking up parts of my posts and then twisting them to suit yourself.

You've avoided replying to my comment about needing attention.

You dear, confuse me.

[quote BobsYerUnclee]**@Wheresmykimchi I think when you've not long conceived to a partner who you were casually dating, the focus shouldn't be on dating someone else....

I've said it before, if I needed the attention so much I'd be doing some soul searching to find out why.

We don't talk about casual sex when dating. It's beyond grim. [/quote]
@Wheresmykimchi

This is the post I was referring to. We'd already discussed the casual sex. I said I thought it was grim. You chose three times to ignore my other point. Probably because it doesn't suit you.

@BobsYerUnclee I've not read the whole rest of the thread. I was working. And had no interest in your views after your vibrator comment.

@Wheresmykimchi Yet you chose to reply to several of them. You are irrelevant, as are your shite views.

Goodbye.

[quote BobsYerUnclee]@Wheresmykimchi Yet you chose to reply to several of them. You are irrelevant, as are your shite views.

Goodbye. [/quote]

Just to update, I had my coffee date. It was fine but wasn’t feeling much of a spark so it won’t be going any further.

@frabbit

Just to update, I had my coffee date. It was fine but wasn’t feeling much of a spark so it won’t be going any further.

All that for this

Fair enough at least you tried.

Though some times you need to fan the flames.