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to not enjoy snogging anymore?

146 replies

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 20:37

I have gone off snogging and French kissing completely over time.
do you really like it/still do it?
I just get bored and find tongues in mouths disgusting.

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Titsywoo · 13/11/2020 20:40

I don't like it either - not sure I ever enjoyed the tongues part to be honest. I enjoy kissing without tongues. Poor DH loves a bit of tongue action so I do it sometimes to keep him happy!

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 20:56

@Titsywoo thank you Smile
glad I'm not the only one to feel this way!
I just grew out of it lol

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AngelasLastEgg · 13/11/2020 21:05

I have never ever enjoyed tongues as puts me in mind of a wet slug lolling itself about in my mouth. Horrible!

I still enjoy ‘getting off’ with DH though, proper kissing but not tongues, no.

TotallyLostThePlotHere · 13/11/2020 21:10

I really never got the tongue thing. Glad it's not just me. I thought there was something wrong with me!

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 21:18

@TotallyLostThePlotHere
Smile I'm glad you agree
I hate when I'm kissing someone and they try to slip me their tongue
I usually have to break off the kiss grrr Angry
why is tongue action the norm these days?

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Callardandbowser · 13/11/2020 21:29

I have always hated tongues and luckily DH doesn’t mind!

AnneLovesGilbert · 13/11/2020 21:33

You feel how you feel. I love it.

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 21:42

@AnneLovesGilbert
but why?
what's so great about just licking each others tongues?
I cant understand the appeal

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Wornout12108 · 13/11/2020 21:44

I'm a no tongue and not into big sniffing sessions either. No idea why.

TwoZeroTwoZero · 13/11/2020 21:46

No. It's sloppy and slurpy and I don't enjoy it either. Dh is a good kisser but I just don't like snogging. I never have.

Pyewhacket · 13/11/2020 21:48

Nothing like a bit of sniffing 😆

dudsville · 13/11/2020 21:49

I always found it to be pretty gross!

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 13/11/2020 21:51

I've always found kissing unhygienic, I hate it. DH wasn't much of a fan either so we were well suited!!

OverTheRubicon · 13/11/2020 21:54

Yanbu.

I dated one guy ever who was an amazing kisser and could use tongues the way I'd want - but he wasn't particularly attractive to me or a great guy, so it didn't correlate with anything else! Other than that one time I've generally wanted to avoid tongues and skip straight to the main event...

Purplecatshopaholic · 13/11/2020 21:55

I love it, as does my partner. We do serious snogging as often as possible

missyB1 · 13/11/2020 21:57

Most men are terrible kissers in my experience, and sloppy slobbery tongue kissing is just revolting.
YANBU.

Whatisthisfuckery · 13/11/2020 21:57

It’s a new relationship thing. It’s great when you’re all shiny and new but after a few years blur. The exception is during sex, but not every time.

Whatisthisfuckery · 13/11/2020 21:58

I don’t go out with men btw, so that might make a difference.

Newmumatlast · 13/11/2020 22:00

Tbh my DH is an incredible kisser so I do still enjoy it even a couple of decades later. Not in public though. I have in the past snogged other men where I have liked them but hated the way they kiss or at best been non plussed. If I'd married any of them - some perfectly nice it just didnt work out - I probably would've gone off snogging past the new relationship phase to be fair

LostInMoab · 13/11/2020 22:06

Thank you, I thought I was so weird for feeling this way!

TheRealHousewife · 13/11/2020 22:08

What’s Sniffing? Serious question.

At nearly 60 I’m sure I should know 😬.

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 22:09

@missyB1 i know most guys use loads of tongue🤮
I have snogged a few girls who were more reserved and better but I wont do that again!

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Guiltypleasures001 · 13/11/2020 22:11

What is this sniffing of which you type ConfusedGrin

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 22:11

@Newmumatlast
serious question -what makes an incredible kisser?

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Cauterize · 13/11/2020 22:12

Yes sniffing where?!