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to not enjoy snogging anymore?

146 replies

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 20:37

I have gone off snogging and French kissing completely over time.
do you really like it/still do it?
I just get bored and find tongues in mouths disgusting.

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ElsieMc · 14/11/2020 18:08

Thought it was just me. I used to hate it if I was out clubbing when younger and men tried to snog me almost straightaway. So intrusive and horrible. When I politely refused they used to look at me with absolute shock as though they were bestowing something wonderful upon me. I also refused to snog boys at school as well.

If anything happened to dh I wouldn't bother again. I would worry about having to kiss someone at the end of the evening like I was a teenager.

sparklefarts · 14/11/2020 18:09

@Ugzbugz

I have snogged 100s of people, men and women and not many kiss well, I absolutely love a good kiss, I often look at mouth and can tell, you dont have to ram your tongue down a throat
@Ugzbugz Wink
to not enjoy snogging anymore?
kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 18:26

@sparklefarts @Ugzbugz
haha I cant believe you did that lol!

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timeforanewstart · 14/11/2020 18:38

Was def more into it when young and snogged probably too many when younger , too many to of kept count- is that bad ? , when met dh we snogged a lot , 20 years later not so much , dh paranoid since loosing a tooth

kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 18:54

@timeforanewstart
im starting to feel like ive missed out

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sparklefarts · 14/11/2020 18:59

@kamala4prez hahah I want to see if @Ugzbugz thinks I've be a good snog 😁

NuniaBeeswax · 14/11/2020 19:07

"And as someone who is French and British there is nothing that I find more off-putting than the use of the word 'snogging'...sorry"

Agreed. It really is the most horrid word.

Saladfingersscaresme · 14/11/2020 19:10

I’m peri menopausal and the thought of french kissing anyone now turns my stomach, my sex drive has completely dried up and I’m totally happy about it. I’ve snogged and shagged enough blokes in my youth. I’d rather read a good book and eat chocolate.

kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 19:10

@sparklefarts I hope she replies soon!
I'm sure you'd be a great snog!

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wizzywig · 14/11/2020 19:27

Love a good, slow kiss.

AllTheUserNamesAreTaken · 14/11/2020 20:12

Been with DH 20 years and although we have a brief snog occasionally I don’t massively enjoy it. He is isn’t a great kisser - a bit too forceful and shoves tongue in - but what he lacks in kissing he definitely makes up for in the sack!

Snowdrop30 · 14/11/2020 20:23

I really miss a good kiss. DH only enjoys it during sex and it makes me feel sad and unloved. There, I said it.

kamala4prez · 15/11/2020 09:46

Looking some responses
I feel like an bloody amateur!
I said earlier I snogged 8 people thinking it was about average for my age
But I am blown away by how many people some of you are snogging!
Am I too inexperienced to be jaded of it already?

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Ugzbugz · 15/11/2020 09:48

@sparklefarts you have beautiful lips, look lush for a good snog Blush

CCSA · 15/11/2020 10:39

Christ some women are terrible kissers too. Some excellent too though Grin those were the days

kamala4prez · 15/11/2020 15:16

[quote Ugzbugz]@sparklefarts you have beautiful lips, look lush for a good snog Blush[/quote]
@sparklefarts
think you're in luck! lol

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sparklefarts · 15/11/2020 16:30

[quote Ugzbugz]@sparklefarts you have beautiful lips, look lush for a good snog Blush[/quote]
WinkWink I'd love a good snog

My OH used to be good but our relationship isn't great at the minute anyway, and sometimes they have smelly breathe which is the final nail in the coffin for a snog. Sigh

sparklefarts · 15/11/2020 16:31

@kamala4prez 🤣🤣 a chance would be a fine thing 😁

liveitwell · 15/11/2020 16:35

Been together 14 years and haven't snogged with tongues for probably 7 of them. I just don't like it anymore and it seems a bit gross!

We kiss passionately without tongues (unless drunk)

Pact11 · 15/11/2020 18:57

I think a lot of men get their hard tongue kissing techniques from porn.

I have kissed around 40 blokes over the last 30 years I reckon. Most of them pre 25 (20 years ago). Over 20 of them will have been end of night bars/clubs.

Most were hard tongue style. I managed to convert a few of the more serious ones.

Been with current partner 20 years. Got to say it’s a pretty rare event nowadays, as is sex!

laudemio · 15/11/2020 19:20

I think most women go off it tbh

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