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kamala4prez · 2020-11-13T20:37:59+00:00

I have gone off snogging and French kissing completely over time. do you really like it/still do it? I just get bored and find tongues in mouths disgusting.

MustardMitt · 13/11/2020 23:01

Husband would be so upset...but I am with you. I don't know if I've gone off it or if he has just got really, really crap over the years but I hate it.

unicornparty · 13/11/2020 23:02

I love a good snog!

Wornout12108 · 13/11/2020 23:04

Sorry sniffing was supposed to say snogging- auto correct jumped in and I didn't notice.
As an aside, I do like to actually sniff my husbands skin, but I don't like snogging or tongues.

Thickhead · 13/11/2020 23:05

Snogging is my favourite thing in the world. DH has never liked it though :( And agree, women are much better at it in general.

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kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 23:06

@Heartofglass12345

I've snogged more women than men and women are much better at it lol. More soft and gentle whereas men tend to shove it in and don't seem to know how to move it around lol. My husband doesn't like tongues so we've never done it but I'm quite happy with that

I have to agree with you us girls are better snoggers than boys I didn't think I was really into girls as well I snogged my girlfriends for fun but now I am wondering...

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Worldwide2 · 13/11/2020 23:08

I cant wrap my head around kissing without tounges, is it like a Hollywood kiss? Or just smooching?

FortunesFave · 13/11/2020 23:11

No I love kissing still...DH is really good at it. After 18 years together, we always start any intimacy off by kissing. And carry on right through!

FortunesFave · 13/11/2020 23:12

WorldWide really? It's just gentle kissing of the lips...both doing it back and forth.

Peakypolly · 13/11/2020 23:16

why is tongue action the norm these days?
I'm 50 and I can assure you it was the norm in the 80's as well.

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kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 23:21

@Peakypolly

why is tongue action the norm these days? I'm 50 and I can assure you it was the norm in the 80's as well.

fair enough lol

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Candyfloss99 · 13/11/2020 23:25

People have sex without snogging?

dubyalass · 13/11/2020 23:28

Kissing with tongues has always left me cold, my ex used to shove his in my mouth and wiggle it around but he had a bridge and if I returned the gesture my tongue would end up touching his bridge - yuck. Lips alone is much more sensual. I once had a fling with a bloke who gently bit my bottom lip mid-kiss and bloody hell it was the sexiest thing ever.

inlectorecumbit · 13/11/2020 23:30

Go on- call his bluff, see if he is actully willing to leave his job for you. Let him come home to you
Then
Ditch the cheating twat,
Hell hath no fury etc

Ok maybe not- but would be good

borntohula · 13/11/2020 23:31

I love it but I hate the word 'snogging.' It's generally reserved for when sex is on the agenda.

user1471560845 · 13/11/2020 23:33

Massive fan of a good snogging session here. Been with husband 11 years and we both still love it

Osirus · 13/11/2020 23:35

We only do it when we have sex. We’re not sitting on the settee snoggers 😁!

I do like it though!

WinWinnieTheWay · 13/11/2020 23:37

I can't stand missing my husband, he's far too sloppy. It might be an age thing because I can't see the appeal at all.

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kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 23:38

@inlectorecumbit

Go on- call his bluff, see if he is actully willing to leave his job for you. Let him come home to you Then Ditch the cheating twat, Hell hath no fury etc

Ok maybe not- but would be good

@inlectorecumbit think you may have accidentally posted in the wrong thread girl lol

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Planty13 · 13/11/2020 23:41

I love it 🤷🏼‍♀️ There is no ramming or slobber. And yup we do it during sex, missionary and between switching up positions

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kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 23:41

@Osirus

We only do it when we have sex. We’re not sitting on the settee snoggers 😁!

I do like it though!

lol "settee snoggers" love that phrase

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Newmumatlast · 13/11/2020 23:44

@dubyalass

Kissing with tongues has always left me cold, my ex used to shove his in my mouth and wiggle it around but he had a bridge and if I returned the gesture my tongue would end up touching his bridge - yuck. Lips alone is much more sensual. I once had a fling with a bloke who gently bit my bottom lip mid-kiss and bloody hell it was the sexiest thing ever.

lol this is part of the reason my DH is such a good kisser imo. Both do this 😄

Newmumatlast · 13/11/2020 23:50

[quote kamala4prez]@Newmumatlast
serious question -what makes an incredible kisser?[/quote]
so in my opinion alot of men go wrong by being too rushed/desperate about it, forcing in their tongue and kind of waggling it about aimlessly or like they're doing battle with yours. Sort of like they've never kissed a girl before even if they have! Whereas DH is imo so good as he is much more gentle and slow, changes rhythm and pressure throughout, gently bites/nibbles on my lip, and matches my rhythm nicely too. The sort of kiss you could get lost in. Never met anyone who kisses as well but I'm sure there are plenty. He is also very, very good you know where but I think that's because of similar stuff. Not rushed and frenzied haha

PolkadotsAndMoonbeams · 13/11/2020 23:50

I like what I thought was snogging, but it doesn't involve tongues. I don't mind a tongue touching my lips, but no further! I don't like the lack of control and get an awful urge to bite...

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kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 23:58

@Newmumatlast
thank you for your reply and explanation
I think you're right about you know where
I always thought there would be a correlation

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Newmumatlast · 14/11/2020 00:03

[quote kamala4prez]@Newmumatlast
thank you for your reply and explanation
I think you're right about you know where
I always thought there would be a correlation[/quote]
The only other person I ever thought was a decent kisser - though not quite DH standard haha - also had the same correlation so though only anecdotal, in my experience it makes total sense ha!