to not enjoy snogging anymore?

[kamala4prez]

I have gone off snogging and French kissing completely over time.
do you really like it/still do it?
I just get bored and find tongues in mouths disgusting.

Absolutely love, love, love a good snog...so intimate and such a lovely part of full-on sex. I couldn't be with a man who didn't love it too.

@LaVitaPuoEsserePiuBella
each to their own
I just see it as a chore before sex now
surely you'd get bored after snogging for 10mins or so

thanks for the responses everyone
I like how I made this thread for proof I wasn't alone in hating Frenching boys and now am starting to wonder if I might be a little bi!
(as I have enjoyed smooching girls more)
I may have to experiment...

Oh no I do love kissing with tongues I have to say. Weirdly enough I don't like kissing during sex which is usually the time men are up for it.

surely you'd get bored after snogging for 10mins or so

Not if you’re kissing the right man.

Me too, really don’t like it at all. Dh loves it so force myself sometimes

@SilverLake, I agree!

@AnneLovesGilbert

It’s just one of those things OP, like comedy, you either get it or you don’t and it’s hard to explain.

I also love sniffing DH. I’m vegetarian and wouldn’t want to hurt him but I’d bite chunks off him if I could. He smells and tastes amazing, it’s intoxicating and kissing with tongues and shagging is as close as I can get to him so that’s what we do.

FWIW I’ve never heard of people who have sex not snogging (obvs with tongues). What do you do? It’s just a lot of individual kisses isn’t it?

I eat meat but I still wouldn’t want to bite and hurt my husband. I don’t think that’s only a vegetation view

Some people are really good at kissing. Most people are not.
The ones that are v good at kissing are usually v good at the other as well. The former is a good barometer for the latter, in my experience

Oh god nothing I love more than a really good extended kissing(/snogging!) session. But to the PP wondering if experience matters - I've kissed a LOT of people haha so maybe I'm just predisposed to like it!

It wouldn't be sex for me without it. Not settee snoggers here either, but if OH pushes me up against a wall for a proper snog then I'm going to be naked very soon 😂

I love snogging, we often have making out sessions that don’t lead elsewhere so we can just enjoy kissing.

@kamala4prez Hahaha, alcohol and youth! To be fair New Years Eve could really rack up the numbers. The times my husband ditched me in my younger years I wasn’t hanging about. I will however say, I haven’t slept with a fraction of that many guys though, so I’m not that bad!

DH refuses to go to the dentist because he says he doesn’t like it and that he insists there’s nothing the matter with him. He’s got broken teeth too but he just lives with it. It’s not good for him. I’ve had £1000s spent on having mine corrected over the years and I know how much care is needed to maintain good dental hygiene. No one likes a visit to the dentist but it’s so important. I wish he respected himself and me a bit more so that he’d just stop being so stupid about it. It actually upsets me as it’s a part of our intimacy I know we’ll never get back. I sometimes find myself imagining what it would be like to kiss someone else again.

@SnackRussell
wow I wouldn't be able to stand that

hmm I am starting to wonder if I simply haven't snogged the right/enough people

@kamala4prez it’s a bit rubbish, but at least I have lots of good memories

Most guys have no idea of how to kiss. That's the issue...

And as someone who is French and British there is nothing that I find more off-putting than the use of the word 'snogging'...sorry :)

I love snogging, always have hopefully always will. It's such a huge part of foreplay for me I can't imagine finding it disgusting or unhygienic.

I've never liked kissing with tongues but bizarrely, with DP (and not with any of my exes), when we're having sex I really want to kiss him like that, and it feels really passionate and special.

But any other thing, a kiss on the lips with no tongues is perfectly fine, thank you.

@Requinblanc

And as someone who is French and British there is nothing that I find more off-putting than the use of the word 'snogging'...sorry :)

what word would you use?

I've been with DH way too long for any snogging. The thought makes me feel a bit repulsed, actually, despite DH being a very handsome and attractive man (with nice teeth).

I probably snogged way too many boys between 2004-2008 as a teen. Must have been 50+ . I don't think I'd even know how to do it any more.

I absolutely love it. It feels so intimate and lovely.

@MrsSpringfield
50 wow!
lucky you!
you must be a very good kisser!

@Requinblanc
I've come to the conclusion that I may need to start snogging some girls
who know what they're doing instead

@MrsSpringfield

I've been with DH way too long for any snogging. The thought makes me feel a bit repulsed, actually, despite DH being a very handsome and attractive man (with nice teeth).

I probably snogged way too many boys between 2004-2008 as a teen. Must have been 50+ . I don't think I'd even know how to do it any more.

@MrsSpringfield am I a novice I've only snogged 8 people and im 30 years old!