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to not enjoy snogging anymore?

146 replies

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 20:37

I have gone off snogging and French kissing completely over time.
do you really like it/still do it?
I just get bored and find tongues in mouths disgusting.

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sausagedoglove · 13/11/2020 22:15

Shame. I love snogging, i find it sexy!

MysweetAudrina · 13/11/2020 22:18

Is sniffing not an auto correct for snogging?

I like kissing with tongues during sex.

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 22:20

I still enjoy sniffing lol!

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NotFrozen · 13/11/2020 22:21

Sniffing what???

Autumnblooms · 13/11/2020 22:23

I love it, I suppose I thought most people did so a little shocked at this thread to find so many don’t like it.

My DH is a good kisser though (because I taught him) 😂

marly11 · 13/11/2020 22:25

I don't mind it but hate slobbery kissing where I feel I am being eaten and have to wipe my face/mouth afterwards. That is a real turn off.

TrickorTreacle · 13/11/2020 22:29

Another one here wondering about the "sniffing".

For every post where the sniffing question remains unanswered, the OP gets another YABU vote!

VinylDetective · 13/11/2020 22:32

You poor, poor women, you’ve obviously never been kissed properly by someone who knows what he’s doing. You’re missing out on one of life’s great pleasures.

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 22:38

For everyone wondering about sniffing poor Wornout12108s
autocorrect misspelled snogging.
I see a few people saying its snogs are great but why please explain?
If I like someone I always prefer to move on into the bedroom stage of things rather than sit about frenching them.

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EatTheHamTina · 13/11/2020 22:38

DP likes to use tongues but he's like a bloody bulldog. No thank you.

EatTheHamTina · 13/11/2020 22:39

@VinylDetective

You poor, poor women, you’ve obviously never been kissed properly by someone who knows what he’s doing. You’re missing out on one of life’s great pleasures.
Patronising much? Hmm
2020yearfromhell · 13/11/2020 22:40

I so loved it as a teen, probably haven’t done it for around 15 years or so

Nogoodusername · 13/11/2020 22:41

Nope, married 13 years and hate tongues, DH still tries...

AnneLovesGilbert · 13/11/2020 22:44

It’s just one of those things OP, like comedy, you either get it or you don’t and it’s hard to explain.

I also love sniffing DH. I’m vegetarian and wouldn’t want to hurt him but I’d bite chunks off him if I could. He smells and tastes amazing, it’s intoxicating and kissing with tongues and shagging is as close as I can get to him so that’s what we do.

FWIW I’ve never heard of people who have sex not snogging (obvs with tongues). What do you do? It’s just a lot of individual kisses isn’t it?

wannabebetter · 13/11/2020 22:45

Wow, I thought it was just me!! I agree with pp that early on a tentative tongue touch is v tingly, but now, well, I'd rather direct him to my tits tbh!!!

Josette77 · 13/11/2020 22:46

I don't think I could have sex with snogging? Isn't that awkward?

Worldwide2 · 13/11/2020 22:51

How do you really kiss without tounges though??? Wouldn't it be like fish gasping for air at each other??
Personally love a bit of tounge action.

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 22:51

@2020yearfromhell
similar for me once you grow up and can have sex it loses its mystique

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Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 13/11/2020 22:54

I can get in the mood with it when having sex, but just in general when gmhaving a kiss I don't like it. Do is always trying to slip the tongue. I just don't get the point.

Heartofglass12345 · 13/11/2020 22:57

I've snogged more women than men and women are much better at it lol. More soft and gentle whereas men tend to shove it in and don't seem to know how to move it around lol.
My husband doesn't like tongues so we've never done it but I'm quite happy with that Smile

kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 22:57

@wannabebetter

Wow, I thought it was just me!! I agree with pp that early on a tentative tongue touch is v tingly, but now, well, I'd rather direct him to my tits tbh!!!
straight to the point lol I love that Smile
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PickAChew · 13/11/2020 22:57

Ok when I'm horny but not when I get a mouthful of tongue. That's just vile. Thankfully it's a few decades since I had a bad snog, though admittedly, l cba, since menopause.

Holothane · 13/11/2020 22:58

Never liked it, we love each other but french kissing no.

BusyBB · 13/11/2020 22:59

My lips just get so dry. DH likes to kiss on lips during sex, I dont mind before hand but I have to reapply lip balm. Like my lips will feel so uncomfortable that I cant concentrate, so I will put lip balm on and say no more kissing on the mouth. Ha

Ugzbugz · 13/11/2020 22:59

I have snogged 100s of people, men and women and not many kiss well, I absolutely love a good kiss, I often look at mouth and can tell, you dont have to ram your tongue down a throat