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to not enjoy snogging anymore?

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kamala4prez · 13/11/2020 20:37

I have gone off snogging and French kissing completely over time.
do you really like it/still do it?
I just get bored and find tongues in mouths disgusting.

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Belindabelle · 14/11/2020 00:29

Oh god I bloody love it. I am 51 DH is 54, we have been together since 1988 and I still go weak at the knees when he snogs me.

However YANBU to feel as you do.

TartanDMs · 14/11/2020 00:38

So quick poll - how many people have you all snogged then? Because for me, it's 6 people (one was a lab technician at school, and I got engaged to 3 of the others, marrying one). I'm not a huge fan of snogging but maybe it's lack of experience?

PickAChew · 14/11/2020 00:45

@Peakypolly

why is tongue action the norm these days? I'm 50 and I can assure you it was the norm in the 80's as well.
#French kissing in the usa#

Definitely nothing new.

Ilovesausages · 14/11/2020 00:56

I have never liked tongue. I am still not really sure what you are supposed to do with the tongues.

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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 01:35

@TartanDMs

So quick poll - how many people have you all snogged then? Because for me, it's 6 people (one was a lab technician at school, and I got engaged to 3 of the others, marrying one). I'm not a huge fan of snogging but maybe it's lack of experience?
good question! its 8 for me
  1. my first French kiss-great at the time
2.1st proper bf-he was a keen snogger
  1. 2nd bf-tongue down throat eww
4-6.my gal friends-sensual and fab kissers 7.3rd bf-my last good Frenchie with a guy 8.latest bf- great smoocher
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AngelasLastEgg · 14/11/2020 01:40

About 90 or so!

Starting with slobbery Aaron at a school disco in 1998, while Bewitched blared our in the background, and I definitely wasn’t expecting a tongue and pretended I was cool with it while PRAYING that wasn’t to be the way of snogs forever.

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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 01:42

@TartanDMs"
one was a lab technician at school"
err you weren't a student at the time right? lol

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Heartofglass12345 · 14/11/2020 01:42

I knew I was into girls before I was into boys lol. Around 13/14 I came out to my friends but then got a boyfriend at 18. I snogged him a lot lol. I snogged lots of my friends who wanted to experiment, I didn't mind haha. I'm married to a man now though, minus tongues lol. I would still class myself as bisexual if we're throwing labels out there.
I've lost count of the amount of people I snogged when I was I my late teens (out every weekend!) before my first serious boyfriend which lasted 8 years! I can't even remember how many people I've slept with, although it's not that many I just have a bad memory lol

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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 01:44

@AngelasLastEgg
think we've all met a slobbery Aaron lmao

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Rubybluesy · 14/11/2020 01:46

Isn't it an important part of intimacy...

TartanDMs · 14/11/2020 08:34

@kamala4prez yeah I was in the sixth form and on a night out with a friend who didn't go to my school, the lab tech was in her social circle (they were part of a sports club) and I didn't do science so didn't recognise him when I got off with him (was quite drunk). He didn't have a clue who I was either and it was only the horror of seeing him at school the following week when I realised Shock He was in his 20s and quite fit, it was a shame really. He turned a fetching shade of white when he saw me taking a short cut through the science block.

Worldwide2 · 14/11/2020 08:48

Fortunes Fave - oh right thanks!
I love a good snog not a slobber one though eeew.

MarjorytheTrashHeap · 14/11/2020 08:58

Gosh, I used to love a good snog. Have snogged many, many men in the past, I'm a bit embarrassed to admit - mostly in bars and clubs. A few were awful like a washing machine but most were very enjoyable. Snogged DH a lot when we were first going out but we didn't do it for years. I decided we should have a go during sex a few months ago but it didn't do anything for me!

ShinyMe · 14/11/2020 09:03

Jeez, now I really miss kissing! It's been years and years.

Notanotherwooname · 14/11/2020 09:05

Me and DH still love snogging 😳

SnackRussell · 14/11/2020 09:11

I really enjoy it, it’s such an intimate thing but my husband hasn’t been to the dentist since we got married 12 years ago. (It took 12 years before that to convince him to go in the first place!) He’s got the most awful breath now which he does nothing about and I can’t bring myself to do it any more. I really miss it. Sad

SnackRussell · 14/11/2020 09:13

As for how many, well I couldn’t put a figure on it!! Easily in the 100s

I told you I liked it!

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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 09:30

@SnackRussell
think that makes you the threads top snogger so far!
whats your secret?

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SilverLake · 14/11/2020 09:31

@Worldwide2

How do you really kiss without tounges though??? Wouldn't it be like fish gasping for air at each other?? Personally love a bit of tounge action.
Ha, ha but funnily enough i love, in the intense heat of the moment during sex, having my open lips millimeters from DH's open lips and holding there, communicating via heavy breathing rather than lips.
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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 09:32

@TartanDMs
thank you I was wondering about that
must have been awkward for the rest of sixth form lol!

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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 09:45

@SnackRussell

I really enjoy it, it’s such an intimate thing but my husband hasn’t been to the dentist since we got married 12 years ago. (It took 12 years before that to convince him to go in the first place!) He’s got the most awful breath now which he does nothing about and I can’t bring myself to do it any more. I really miss it. Sad
sorry its just registered with me what you said. 12 years that ridiculous! Shock why not if don't mind me asking?
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TartanDMs · 14/11/2020 09:47

@kamala4prez you're not wrong Grin luckily I was in the last few months of Upper sixth (and was 18) so he hadn't accidentally nonced me and I was able to avoid him...

Wannakisstheteacher · 14/11/2020 09:49

Nope. Hate it. It is just disgusting to me.

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kamala4prez · 14/11/2020 09:57

@SilverLake
Confused

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Worldwide2 · 14/11/2020 10:03

Silverlake
It sounds like a scene out of a film!
I just find snogging so passionate and intimate. Mmmm I'm going off for a snog now 🤣