He doesn't give a shit does he?

[CrotchBurn]

Hasnt hugged me or properly engaged with me in about 3 months now.

Tries to have half hearted sex with me, although to be fair I'd say it's been about 3 weeks that he hasnt even tried that.

When I try and tackle it he just says "it's not you, I'm just feeling tense lately".

Starting to get fed up now. Hes not acting like hes particularly depressed or anything. Just kind of mooching around. I just went up to him to kiss him, thought I would try a bit of tenderness - I do every day, although obviously I've pared it back lately because theres only so much you can do without feeling like a loser. He just lay there on the sofa unmoving and smiled at me.

I feel a bit pissed off now. Just say what's on your mind or make an effort?

What do you think? I can feel the beginning of a fight start coming up in me.

Doesn't matter if it is depression, he is also damaging your mental health, which is equally important.

Make your plans OP. If he's not going to attempt to help himself, you can't do it for him, but you can look after YOURself.

Get yourself home

Sweetheart, I wish I could give you a hug.

For a moment, don't think about him at all. Forget wondering what is wrong with him, and what he needs. Just think about you and what you need. There is no sign this will change. Do you want to stay here and keep being frozen out? Or do you want to pack up and go to where your network is?

You are important. You deserve to be in a supportive environment. You deserve love and happiness. X