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AIBU to think that women don't want Cock Shots

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GreyShadow · 28/08/2020 10:54

Just been chatting online to a potential date about cock shots, and he said loads of women ask for them on OLD.

I expressed surprise and said in my experience as a women and my also my friends, most women don't appreciate a doc pic.

Well obviously he's mansplained it to me, and many women do enjoy cock shots (apparently)

Am I so wrong? I would assume anyone wanting a dic pic was one of the online scammers and "normal" OLD women certainly DO NOT want pictures of penises in their inbox!

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

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lazylinguist · 28/08/2020 18:39

As part of a steamy convo with my boyf then sometimes. I’d not be offended but they don’t elevate my pulse. I know he enjoys the idea that I like them.

Exactly. It's all about stroking the male... ego. There seems to be a lot of emphasis on women and girls going along with things because they know men like to think they like them. Christ I'm glad I'm older and married! If I ever end up single for whatever reason, I'm stsying single for good. OLD in particular sounds ghastly.

formerbabe · 28/08/2020 18:40

@desperado24

There's over 200 posts now. But just to make it clear I was talking about men in a general term, not you specifically if that's what is bothering you.

jessstan2 · 28/08/2020 18:41

This is interesting to me because twenty years and more ago I was friendly with a woman at work to whom size mattered; I mean, more than most.

Seeing a photograph of it would have helped her selection process.

However, who would seriously contemplate dating a bloke who put his cock on view for anyone to see? I wouldn't and I know that she wouldn't have wanted a chap like that either.

slappaplek · 28/08/2020 18:49

mrshoho
Not immediately.

We chatted for a week or so before things heated up. We were both just looking for some fun.
It was during early lockdown so meeting up wasn't an option. I wanted more so I asked, he obliged. Simple as that.

mrshoho · 28/08/2020 19:16

@slappaplek

mrshoho Not immediately. We chatted for a week or so before things heated up. We were both just looking for some fun. It was during early lockdown so meeting up wasn't an option. I wanted more so I asked, he obliged. Simple as that.
Fair play to you.
HelpOrHindrance · 28/08/2020 19:37

@Mistystar99

Save the worst one, then send it to any unsolicited pics you get!
Oh God yes! With the caption "Look at mine"
HelpOrHindrance · 28/08/2020 19:46

@rainbowlou

My lovely friend is about to give up online dating because of the amount of men sending her unwanted photos. She literally has to type hi and she has a close up dick pic in her inbox. She is starting to get really disheartened by it.
She needs to change sites. Is MySingleFriend still going? That was a good one
rainbowlou · 28/08/2020 20:13

@HelpOrHindrance. Good shout! I forgot about that one.

Bumlooksbig · 28/08/2020 22:54

This is doing the rounds on Twitter. Note circled object on bedroom carpetGrin

gingganggooleywotsit · 28/08/2020 23:07

😂 that really is pathetic

mrshoho · 28/08/2020 23:12

@Bumlooksbig

This is doing the rounds on Twitter. Note circled object on bedroom carpetGrin
Sweet lord! Is that meant to impress women??
Desperado24 · 28/08/2020 23:15

@Bumlooksbig

This is doing the rounds on Twitter. Note circled object on bedroom carpetGrin
And is relevant to this thread how?
CrazyToast · 28/08/2020 23:50

Would never want a random unsolicted dick pic, not ever.

But I have very much enjoyed getting one when we've had a sexy chat relationship and have often requested it. Its all about context.

Do any women just want dick pics from randoms? No doubt some do but I dont think many. Not basing this on anything other than my own experience though.

sandy541 · 29/08/2020 00:16

So romantic ❤
The stories one could tell the grandchildren.
Grandma how did you meet grandpa?
Well sweetheart we met on old, I asked him for a dick pic and was so impressed I sent him a video of me wanking, we fell in love and the rest is history.😂

LadyLairdArgyll · 29/08/2020 00:21

nope no absolutely not never and if I did get one, they would be Blocked

PotatoBasher · 29/08/2020 00:33

A teenage girl was telling me that so many of her (underage) teen friends are getting dic pics and are horrified.
The senders are teen boys but where do they get the idea that this is OK.

None of this group of teens asked for/wanted to see/liked the pics.
However according to Desperado, they are all lying despite being fairly open 14 year olds.

(And for what it is worth, I am an old gimmer and I would not want one- they are as ugly as hell. I would rather clean up cat vomit that gaze adoringly at a dic pic. Even DH recognises they are not pretty)

Valkadin · 29/08/2020 01:29

The only dic pic I have ever seen was when I was on a course at work and a woman on the course had an unsolicited one sent to her on her phone. She showed us all in the lunch break and much piss taking was had of what a sad wanker the sender was.

I

Sparklesocks · 29/08/2020 01:35

@Bumlooksbig

This is doing the rounds on Twitter. Note circled object on bedroom carpetGrin
I wonder if he briefly thought about using it for scale and then realised it was a bad idea Grin
NiceGerbil · 29/08/2020 01:56

It's a bizarre phenomenon.

I think there's 2 things maybe

New form of flashing
Hoping to get something back

I don't know any woman who likes dick pics off men they meet online and have only just chatted to. It seems to happen a lot though.

The thing that shocked me was that a few years ago on here there was a thread like this and I learnt that many dick pics are flaccid...? WTF? who wants to look at a flaccid cock???

Anyone on the thread able to confirm if this is still the case?

NiceGerbil · 29/08/2020 01:57

OP I think that chap had a fertile imagination.

Or was talking to men pretending to be women!

Sparklesocks · 29/08/2020 02:00

My friend was on a date a few years ago in a pub - guy seemed really normal and nice, pleasant ordinary ‘Getting to know you’ small talk - no mention of anything sexual or racy.

He went to the loo and sent her a DICK PIC from the toilet stall!!! She thought it was a mistake at first but he came out grinning asking if she got his text. So gross. She left after that and blocked his number. God knows what he was thinking.

Mothership4two · 29/08/2020 02:26

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

No you were right. Women don't want to see them. Some men must just think they do. A lot of men seem very proud of their tackle Grin (It's not exactly the most attractive part of the male anatomy)

Ghoste · 29/08/2020 02:52

A friend unfortunately discovered that there is a sub set of men who get off on creating dating profiles with their girlfriend's photos and collecting dick pics from people who got hard to 'their woman'.

Men are just so effing nuts. Wth.

YouJustDoYou · 29/08/2020 08:11

Dick pics are just 🤮🤮🤮

Desperado24 · 29/08/2020 08:17

@PotatoBasher

A teenage girl was telling me that so many of her (underage) teen friends are getting dic pics and are horrified. The senders are teen boys but where do they get the idea that this is OK.

None of this group of teens asked for/wanted to see/liked the pics.
However according to Desperado, they are all lying despite being fairly open 14 year olds.

(And for what it is worth, I am an old gimmer and I would not want one- they are as ugly as hell. I would rather clean up cat vomit that gaze adoringly at a dic pic. Even DH recognises they are not pretty)

Where the hell do you get the impression I think they are lying from? Try reading the thread again ffs
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