AIBU to think that women don't want Cock Shots

[GreyShadow]

Just been chatting online to a potential date about cock shots, and he said loads of women ask for them on OLD.

I expressed surprise and said in my experience as a women and my also my friends, most women don't appreciate a doc pic.

Well obviously he's mansplained it to me, and many women do enjoy cock shots (apparently)

Am I so wrong? I would assume anyone wanting a dic pic was one of the online scammers and "normal" OLD women certainly DO NOT want pictures of penises in their inbox!

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

It depends on the context really.

Unsolicited and unmasked for, even with someone they're chatting to, then totally unacceptable. You wouldn't just whip it out in the middle of a face to face conversation so why do it in an online one?

But if it's been specifically asked for, for example during a heated conversation, then that's between two consenting adults.

I would have personally thought that the women who would want to be sent a dick pic would be in the minority. Some probably like them but I can't think of a single woman I know irl who would respond with anything other than disgust or laugh their heads off if they received one. I've always thought that men who think the majority of women like to be sent a dick pic are deluded and actually don't understand women much at all.

He knows that you don't want to see them, but he doesn't care. His fetish is to show his bits and he gets excited by your disgust. Women don't tend to realise that these men's excitement is nothing to do with your sexual pleasure and everything to do with their tripping over your boundaries. Block him, he is nobody to you and he is a pervert.

No.
I've never met a woman that does.

All they are good for is pointing, laughing and showing your friends.

Yet men seem to think women want it?!

I thought this was some cocktail type drink when i read the title Can't imagine many women wanting a dick pic though no, especially as the first viewing of said dick

I don’t understand why men who send these pics aren’t concerned about their dick being judged and found lacking.

When I was on dating sites, I got sent far too many! why on earth they think women want to see them I don't know, they are pretty ugly things at the best of times let alone a strange one landing in your messages..

Yeah right - that's all women want

I'd have ditched him right there - creep

I wonder if there are any women that would get excited by sending a random man an unsolicited and out of context picture of their fanjo?

Obviously in the context of sexting it would be appropriate, but the random out of the blue dic pic is truly an enigma to me.

No woman wants one unsolicited.

I can’t understand why anyone would ask for one either, but if they do that’s an entirely different matter.

I've seen a fair few as part of my job, and to be honest it's usually the guys that don't have much to boast about that send them. I totally agree with the previous poster who said it's the men who don't understand women who are most likely to be the culprits - they'd love a picture of a woman's boobs or arse, therefore she definitely wants to see his cock.

DP and I used to send some filthy messages to each other, but I'd have had zero interest in even his dick pic/cock shot

@Stripesgalore

I don’t understand why men who send these pics aren’t concerned about their dick being judged and found lacking.

Some men have a fetish for having their bits judged and mocked. As I said above, women have no idea about the kinds of fetish some men have. Once they have these fetishes nothing else will work sexually for them so they are not good boyfriend material. Get dick pic, block. Whatever response you make, laughing, disgust etc is more material for them to fap to.

Ewww why.

I agree.

I mean in all honesty, I fancy the pants off my husband and obviously, I’m very fond of his dick - but I absolutely do not want a picture of it, in any form.

How far away do you have to be before you can shoot and what are the rules on the selection of weapons?

Haha. I thought this was an alcoholic drink in a cock shaped shot glass and thought "might be a bit funny on a hen do". But no, I think most of the women I know would think dick pics are gross and a bit pathetic.

He’s a keeper

Block and move on

Those sending them don't really care what women want.

I think men who say that 'women love dick pics' are just transferring their feelings about tit and fanny pics onto women.

THEY want to see bits, and, of course, they are totally normal and representative of the whole human race, so of COURSE women want dick pics!

I have a mate from choir who did online dating. She got loads of them and passed them round choir for anybody who was interested. Nearly always taken as a selfie in a grotty toilet too. She also matched with people who would have normal conversations about hobbies and music and then blurt out that they wanted her to piss on them or flush their head down a toilet or stand on them in stilettos and on and on. She gave up and not long after, met an old schoolfriend in the pub and ended up in a normal relationship. It's been 18 months now and she says she still half expects him to blurt out something unsolicited and vile.

No, most genuine women don't want pictures of your schlong.

My friends and I love to ridicule the dick pics we receive

That is their only purpose

There*

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

Some do. My online dating days are long behind me but during the early get to know each other chats on MSN (remember that!) I had a few requests. A bit of context is required, these were not out of the blue requests but off the back of some pretty flirty/naughty preceeding chat. Never got why some men feel the need to send unsolicited dick pics though!

I got sent a pic of a flaccid cock once.Urgh.

Are you still intending to go out with this man?