AIBU to think that women don't want Cock Shots

[GreyShadow]

Just been chatting online to a potential date about cock shots, and he said loads of women ask for them on OLD.

I expressed surprise and said in my experience as a women and my also my friends, most women don't appreciate a doc pic.

Well obviously he's mansplained it to me, and many women do enjoy cock shots (apparently)

Am I so wrong? I would assume anyone wanting a dic pic was one of the online scammers and "normal" OLD women certainly DO NOT want pictures of penises in their inbox!

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

the first viewing of said dick

This made me chuckle

I agree with pp who said that these men don't really know or care what women want. Seems like a clumsy move which you respond to by blocking.

few years ago I got one, I didn't ask for or expect it- it appeared on my phone screen while I was at work. Lots of people around, I was lucky nobody saw it or I would have been in trouble.

Save the worst one, then send it to any unsolicited pics you get!

YADNBU

I used to get lots of dick pics.

Totally unsolicited, sometimes the guy would be having a conversation with himself, then decided to send it, sometimes they would ask if I want to see something, I would ask what, and would get a pic rather than an answer.

I used to show them to someone at work who had only ever seen her husbands and we would laugh our heads off.

It's online flashing, they get off on it. Its never about the recipient.

Since when has what women actually want mattered particularly to a (depressingly large) percentage of men?

Just imagining a flacid dick flapping about Aries!

It's just a modern day version of flashing ...they get a thrill from exposing themselves and intimidating or shocking the woman

I might like a picture of a man with a hot body attractively posed showing off his muscular torso and flat belly 🙂
I might then be interested in getting acquainted with his private area 👀

I do know some women who want to erm... try before they buy... so it’s not totally crazy of him to say. But I think the majority of times (excluding those awful unsolicited ones!!) it’s guys wanting to send them and women not wanting to hurt their feelings.

Kind of like when your cat brings you a sock, and they’re so proud of themselves so you fake some enthusiasm because you don’t want them to be disappointed?

Just imagining a flacid dick flapping about

Kind of like when your cat brings you a sock, and they’re so proud of themselves so you fake some enthusiasm because you don’t want them to be disappointed?

LOL.

I think it's also like when your dog rolls in fox shit and you make probably the same facial expression as when receiving a dick pic, but the dog is so happy. And all you can think is 'how soon can I get rid of this...'

Try before they buy
Of course, but why can't he arrange some sort of 'Terry wogan style' trouser shot to let you know subtly🤔

Haha I genuinely thought this was going to be about a hen do with penis shot glasses or something! I don't know anyone that likes dic pics.

"Hey Jen, come and take a look at this dick. Absolute belter." Said no woman, ever.

Just to be clear he didn't send me a dic pic nor was he suggesting it. It was just a conversation about some of the female profiles he has seen on OLD.

However his reaction to my surprise was enough to put me off him and he's been deleted :)

I'm still not getting to the bottom of if any women enjoy dic pics. I know some of you are saying that you know people who do. But is there anyone on MNet who actually enjoys receiving them?

Ahhh shit. There's always been a lot of flashers near the all girls secondary where I live. When I went there, we were told as part of the strategy in dealing with this situation was to point and laugh.

I'm now guessing that's actually not great advice.

Re dick pics, in the right context, as part of flirty texts, some of us might ask for one. But it's the unsolicited ones or the assumption we automatically want them, which pees me off. You get sent so many they become boring. If they have to exist at all, there needs to be context. It's something I have tried to explain to my partner regarding other aspects of our relationship. Some men just don't get that women on the whole aren't turned on immediately by a photo of someone's privates; I guess because many men are turned on by photos of women in compromising positions.

I love a dick pic... from my husband who loves to send them while I'm at work spontaneously or I'll ask him too. and I think If I was dating, I wouldn't mind them either. It's been a long time since I dated though. Obviously I don't plan to either. Haha.

I absolutely would/do, in context and as part of a sexting scenario. I like a creative one rather than a disembodied body part (my now partner was particularly good at this when we first started texting). So it's not true that no women want them.

(Randomly off strangers, no, of course.)

Can we ask for rulers to be included?
No I hate Dick Pics.
Why just why?

Yeah ok I can see getting one from your DH/DP can be fun. That makes sense.

But a randomer off the internet?

Ick. No thanks.

I had a guy tell me that girls 'normally really enjoy tit wanks' on tinder the other week. Delete block.

Always a red flag when they try to tell you you're supposed to feel a certain way about something. Or worse that 'everyone else of your gender' does. Cringe.

Has he changed his position? Because first he said women ask for them, then he said women enjoy them. If those were his precise words, he's a sex pest making excuses by claiming women want it and like it.

Perhaps it depends on different OLD apps? I’m pretty sure they get screened out on match as I used to get notification of a new message which then disappeared before I could see it and I could see that the person had been banned.

Would I want to see them? Well as a novelty perhaps but that’s about it. I’d certainly never request one. As for my pics, I’ve found the one of me in a mask has had more interest than the others 🤷‍♀️

No way, if someone sent me a dick pic I'd send it to his mum and say "have a word with him"