AIBU to think that women don't want Cock Shots

[GreyShadow]

Just been chatting online to a potential date about cock shots, and he said loads of women ask for them on OLD.

I expressed surprise and said in my experience as a women and my also my friends, most women don't appreciate a doc pic.

Well obviously he's mansplained it to me, and many women do enjoy cock shots (apparently)

Am I so wrong? I would assume anyone wanting a dic pic was one of the online scammers and "normal" OLD women certainly DO NOT want pictures of penises in their inbox!

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

Kind of like when your cat brings you a sock, and they’re so proud of themselves so you fake some enthusiasm because you don’t want them to be disappointed?

Actually it's more like when one of my cats comes in to show me a dead mouse that they've caught. I once had a cat who used to bring in several dead mice and line them up for my inspection.

Thank you, Dizzy, just what I always wanted to see. Not! One looks pretty much like another after all.

Much like dick pics, I should think!

Yuck.

Thank christ my dating days were pre-internet.

Am actual lolling at the man on here assuring us that we're wrong, prudish, and all our friends secretly love dick pics: oh, and anal sex.

I never think of other women as slags. I think that there is Patriarchal Thinking,

Unsolicited ones no, if I've been chatting to someone for a while I might ask for one.

Am actual lolling at the man on here assuring us that we're wrong, prudish, and all our friends secretly love dick pics: oh, and anal sex.

I never think of other women as slags. I think that there is Patriarchal Thinking

Absolutely! We talk openly in my group of friends. No shame or prudishness about it at all. No judgement. But the consensus is always that dick pics are to be laughed at and the sender blocked. As is the consensus on here.

But no, clearly we are all just hiding our real feelings 🙄

I don't understand the responses to Desperado24

Can none of you actually believe that some women might ask? I did! It was initiated by me, not him.

In fact, after I asked for the video I then asked if he thought it was weird of me to ask, he told me that it wasn't weird and that a lot of women enjoy seeing it. I certainly enjoyed

@slappaplek

I don't understand the responses to Desperado24

Can none of you actually believe that some women might ask? I did! It was initiated by me, not him.

In fact, after I asked for the video I then asked if he thought it was weird of me to ask, he told me that it wasn't weird and that a lot of women enjoy seeing it. I certainly enjoyed

Exactly, but apparently you don’t exist and none of the women who asked me exist either and all the dates and meting were a figment of my imagination and Mumsnet is a totally accurate reflection of life.

Out of interest. Have you told your real life friends? Apparently you definitely would let them all know immediately

@ImRealHonest

In the right context then yes, I do quite enjoy receiving dick pics or even a video of the, erm, end of the discussion. However, this would only apply to my international fuckbuddy who I haven’t seen since March as we live on different continents. Definitely don’t want to see random internet cocks.

"International Fuckbuddy" is a great job description that I didn't even know existed. Would be an equally fantastic band name.

Desperado24
Yeah I told a couple of my close friends. I tend to over share, maybe they preferred I didn't

I certainly wasn't ashamed or embarrassed about it. I honestly don't know why anyone would be so shocked by it 🤷‍♀️

@nevermorelenore I recommend blocking my ex on dating apps ASAP 😂

Oh I’ve chatted to him for 2 mins, I wonder what his cock looks like?’ Said no woman ever.

Imagine going on a date with someone whose genitals you've seen before their face! Grim and everything that is wrong with OLD and I am neither old nor a prude.

I am anything but a prude. But. Any genitalia that I get to see, I like to at least have offered to have a look at. Even a doctor is going to flinch if you walk in with your trousers round your ankles and your tackle waving. At least wait for them to say 'would you like to take your trousers off'.

Unsolicited absolutely loath them.

As part of a steamy convo with my boyf then sometimes. I’d not be offended but they don’t elevate my pulse. I know he enjoys the idea that I like them.

@PCol

Oh I’ve chatted to him for 2 mins, I wonder what his cock looks like?’ Said no woman ever.

Imagine going on a date with someone whose genitals you've seen before their face! Grim and everything that is wrong with OLD and I am neither old nor a prude.

Neither are you the voice of all women!

You know most people’s profile pictures have their face in? You know people can chat for ages before meeting up?

I already said my wife and I exchanged messages (and pictures, at her request, and videos - I had seen her masterbate before I ever heard her voice and vice versa)

It’s really not that unusual.

Seriously, @Desperado24? You really don't think it's unusual to have watched someone wank before you ever meet them?

I suggest that you have possibly been dating from quite a restricted pool.

She may not be the voice of all women, but hers is a woman's voice in a conversation about something mostly women experience.

For some reason you want to diminish her: can't think why.

For some reason you want to diminish her: can't think why

Oh give over. The OP asked:
Do some women actually want dic pics?

He responded.

That's not diminishing anything.

I already said my wife and I exchanged messages (and pictures, at her request, and videos - I had seen her masterbate before I ever heard her voice and vice versa*

Like I said, grim.

I'm ancient and think it's beyond hideous. Never happened when I was young but then it wouldn't - way back then they would have had to take the shot with a camera, wait to finish the film and have it developed at the local chemist.

If I did receive one I would probably respond saying 'have you seen a doctor about that' which may stop them sending any more pics to other women for a while.

@PCol

* I already said my wife and I exchanged messages (and pictures, at her request, and videos - I had seen her masterbate before I ever heard her voice and vice versa*

Like I said, grim.

Grim in your opinion. Not mine, hers or any of the other women who ASKED me.

The OP asked a question. I am able to answer it when most of the other posters actually can’t because they haven’t been in the situation the guy the OP was chatting to.

I have. Just because you wouldn’t do something lots of other people do doesn’t alter the fact that my answers are about the only ones on the thread that are actually able to answer the question she asked with some actual experience

I hate receiving them and I refuse to send nude pics in return to randoms. I don't send raunchy nudes to my bf- certainly not ones with anything censor-worthy showing, I'm all about the angles- and I don't want dick pics back although I do enjoy his rear view .

What on earth had happened to men nowadays...most are too cowardly to chat women up in person and are busy sitting behind a screen sending photos of their cock to random women... wtf

@slappaplek

I don't understand the responses to Desperado24

Can none of you actually believe that some women might ask? I did! It was initiated by me, not him.

In fact, after I asked for the video I then asked if he thought it was weird of me to ask, he told me that it wasn't weird and that a lot of women enjoy seeing it. I certainly enjoyed

You saw his profile and asked for a video of his dick? Was that before or after you asked what his hobbies were?

@formerbabe

What on earth had happened to men nowadays...most are too cowardly to chat women up in person and are busy sitting behind a screen sending photos of their cock to random women... wtf

Didn’t read the them read then ?

read the thread

A friend unfortunately discovered that there is a sub set of men who get off on creating dating profiles with their girlfriend's photos and collecting dick pics from people who got hard to 'their woman'.

She dumped him immediately on finding out but he'd collected a fair few.