AIBU to think that women don't want Cock Shots

[GreyShadow]

Just been chatting online to a potential date about cock shots, and he said loads of women ask for them on OLD.

I expressed surprise and said in my experience as a women and my also my friends, most women don't appreciate a doc pic.

Well obviously he's mansplained it to me, and many women do enjoy cock shots (apparently)

Am I so wrong? I would assume anyone wanting a dic pic was one of the online scammers and "normal" OLD women certainly DO NOT want pictures of penises in their inbox!

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

I don’t know a single woman who would enjoy a dick pic. I mean, they aren’t even pretty. I’d assume any guy who sent one was a skeevy creep and block accordingly.

I don’t mind them... can see if they are ‘lacking’ or not in that department then.

You know this how?

@Desperado24 because women talk about this kind of thing and how grim we find it to be.

Would probably assume it was a man posing as a woman more likely than not if she just asked for a dick pick out ilofthe blue.

As pps have said, a chest pick worth maybe a bit if a tease of like, a button undone on the trousers or something might be desirable. But dick pics...ick.

God these are adorable.

If it were me I’d save one, then every bloke from then on who sent me a picture of their dick, I’d send it back and say, ‘here’s mine.’

@FenellaVelour

You know this how?

@Desperado24 because women talk about this kind of thing and how grim we find it to be.

Ah right. That makes sense then and my actual real world experience of where a decent percentage of women initiate these things by sending my sexy pictures first is completely fabricated.

And of course, when you are al sitting in a gaggle discussing how “grim” it is the ones in the group who actually enjoy it are going to go completely against the flow, Admit they do it, and so be immediately judged as slags by the rest

Like Anal. Not many women are going to admit to their friends they enjoy it. About half do - even on a ONS.

Maybe I live in a parallel universe, or maybe the average mumsneter is not very representative of society as a whole?

I wouldn't even want one from my DH !

Surely it is a good test of a potential date. If they send a dick selfie...you know you are dealing with a loser sex pest before you even get started. If they refrain from such activity, it is a starting point for judging them to be potentially normal and dateable...

I joined tinder and seem to get a few

Seriously I really don't want to see it

Lol. Women here are anonymous and can express whatever they fucking want. But most say they don't like getting dickpics so obviously they are lying. There can no other explanation.

Sounds like a cock himself! Don't know anyone who would want a pic.

But this is an anonymous board. If lots of women liked dick pics then surely there would be a lot more women saying they did on here...? I agree there might be some age skewing on this site but I dunno...theres also going to be skewing on hookup sites like tinder in the other direction. So you could argue that online dating isn't representative either.

The women who ask for dick pic’s are overwhelmingly men cat fishing.
‘Oh I’ve chatted to him for 2 mins, I wonder what his cock looks like?’ Said no woman ever.

I love how a man like Desperado comes on here trying to tell women what they like 😂😂 Yeah, all right mate - your ego a bit bruised that you've just found out women don't like pictures of your ugly dangly thing? 😂😂

@ShouldWeChangeTheBulb

The women who ask for dick pic’s are overwhelmingly men cat fishing. ‘Oh I’ve chatted to him for 2 mins, I wonder what his cock looks like?’ Said no woman ever.

I met these women! They were real and that lady bits that they had voluntarily sent photos of always matched up photo vs real life

To be fair, poor soul probably just doesn't want to think that Barbieloveyoulongtime94 could have been billyseesyourwill78. Oh the horror.

God I'm pleased I'm not dating nowadays.

I remember going out, getting chatted up in person, a quick kiss at the end of the night...then he'd call you a few days later and you'd go for dinner. A couple more dates and you'd be boyfriend and girlfriend.

No dick pics, no outrageous expectations as a result of porn etc

The good old days

@YouJustDoYou

I love how a man like Desperado comes on here trying to tell women what they like 😂😂 Yeah, all right mate - your ego a bit bruised that you've just found out women don't like pictures of your ugly dangly thing? 😂😂

On EVERY SINGLE occasion, the woman instigated by sending pics first. Often of them playing with toys etc.

Not once did I instigate the picture sending or ever would.

@formerbabe I agree. It was so good! and easy..

Desperado, let me explain something- just because they sent you pics, doesn't mean they actually wanted one of you in return.

@YouJustDoYou

Desperado, let me explain something- just because they sent you pics, doesn't mean they actually wanted one of you in return.

Erm - they asked!

I don’t send unsolicited photos. These women, about half of the ones I physically met, asked me to send pictures and they weren’t men or scammers because they are all women I subsequently met.

Not sure what’s so hard to understand?

Eww no.

In the right context then yes, I do quite enjoy receiving dick pics or even a video of the, erm, end of the discussion. However, this would only apply to my international fuckbuddy who I haven’t seen since March as we live on different continents. Definitely don’t want to see random internet cocks.

I've never had one. I'm (hopefully) only approx halfway through my life now and really hope to make it to the other end without one.

Don't get me wrong, my DHs bits are the biz, but I don't want a photo from him or anyone else. If I were dating, I'd block the sender.