AIBU to think that women don't want Cock Shots

[GreyShadow]

Just been chatting online to a potential date about cock shots, and he said loads of women ask for them on OLD.

I expressed surprise and said in my experience as a women and my also my friends, most women don't appreciate a doc pic.

Well obviously he's mansplained it to me, and many women do enjoy cock shots (apparently)

Am I so wrong? I would assume anyone wanting a dic pic was one of the online scammers and "normal" OLD women certainly DO NOT want pictures of penises in their inbox!

Am I wrong. Do some women actually want dic pics?

I hated them when I was OLD. Instant turn-off. I can't believe many women like them, let alone actually request them.

Depends what you're looking for. When I've used apps for casual sex, I want to see what I'm working with before we meet.

@Heffalooomia

I might like a picture of a man with a hot body attractively posed showing off his muscular torso and flat belly 🙂 I might then be interested in getting acquainted with his private area 👀

This. If men want to advertise themselves they should take flattering pics of their entire bodies. Not ugly close-ups of their genitals.

I’ve never been sent one, I feel lucky 😅
Not my cup of tea at all.

You know when you see male pigeons flapping a round and trying to mount an obviously uninterested female? I think dick pics are the human equivalent.

why hasn't your post got the voting option?
I think this warrants a vote.

no, IME, women definitely DO NOT want the cock shots.
They're fucking ugly genitals, and nobody wants to see them.
I do not understand why men are so obsessed with their penises - how can they not see how fucking ugly they are????

I don't even want to see DH's penis in a photo.

@Jellybeansincognito

@growinggreyer

He knows that you don't want to see them, but he doesn't care. His fetish is to show his bits and he gets excited by your disgust. Women don't tend to realise that these men's excitement is nothing to do with your sexual pleasure and everything to do with their tripping over your boundaries. Block him, he is nobody to you and he is a pervert.

I'll just quote this reply because it's perfect

@Biscusting 😅 would be about as good as a pencil

I think the only reply, should a reply be deemed necessary (which it really isn’t) would be:
“It looks a bit like a penis, only smaller and misshapen.”
And block.

I don't believe I've ever met a woman who has actually liked cock shots.

I like cock but I get nothing whatsoever from pictures of nobs, even from someone I'm sleeping with or potentially sleeping with. The idea of receiving one from a random on a dating app turns my stomach.

As others have pointed out I am sure this has far more with men liking to shock and disgust women than it does with what women want.

There's nothing attractive about Male or Female genitalia. Ive long said that it was pleasant to look at it would be on our heads!

Unsolicited - ugh
In a steamy convo with my ex LDR boyfriend - liked it

It's about context for me

(And i have never sent one of my fanjo)

Nope definitely not and I don’t get the fascination with them sending them OLD either. They aren’t very pretty to look at and it makes me laugh the effort they go to with camera angles to try and make it look bigger!

Exactly as @growinggreyer said. Generally I don't think women do want them off random strangers... it's his "thing"

How tacky! But highly amusing nonetheless 🤣

Definitely not!

My friend is OLD and gets loads - and obviously sends them to all her friends so we can laugh.

It is weird though

as long as it's smiling nicely for the camera!

@sofato5miles

Unsolicited - ugh In a steamy convo with my ex LDR boyfriend - liked it

It's about context for me

(And i have never sent one of my fanjo)

You see I just don't understand this: I have a fairly high sex drive and I like a bit of erotic chat. But I get absolutely nothing from looking at photos of someone's cock at all, even someone I really fancy.

I find them at best funny, at worst revolting .

He might be confusing the replies. Probably thinks he’s getting sent smiley faces emojis of encouragement when they are pissing themselves laughing in derision.

Not sexy at all. Always makes me think of a garden worm wearing a polo neck.

@GreyShadow

Just to be clear he didn't send me a dic pic nor was he suggesting it. It was just a conversation about some of the female profiles he has seen on OLD.

However his reaction to my surprise was enough to put me off him and he's been deleted :)

I'm still not getting to the bottom of if any women enjoy dic pics. I know some of you are saying that you know people who do. But is there anyone on MNet who actually enjoys receiving them?

Deleting him sounds very harsh if as you describe it was a conversation about his past experiences of OLD!

I did a lot of OLD a couple of years ago and would guess that just under half of the woman I met up with for a date (there were about 40 dates over 12 months) had sent me saucy pictures and asked for pics back in return before we met. Always instigated by the female, never by me.

My now wife. We knew everything about each other before we met - as circumstances meant that we chatted/sexted for about three weeks before we actually physically met.

He was relaying his experiences of OLD which sound broadly similar to mine.

@Laufeythejust

Nope definitely not and I don’t get the fascination with them sending them OLD either. They aren’t very pretty to look at and it makes me laugh the effort they go to with camera angles to try and make it look bigger!

Ooh tell us more! I'm intrigued about the camera angles

Also intrigued (in a bleurgh way) about the poster who said that blokes photograph their cocks when they're in the toilet etc .... I mean, I suppose that's obvious when you think about it, but I had assumed that it might be slightly more staged ... maybe with some nice background lighting and a bunch of flowers next to it or something???

As you can tell, I've never been sent a dick pic

They're only for laughing at. Dicks look ugly and comical.

No, I would think those women who want this are in a minority.

OTOH could a woman ask for a cock shot and then use it to extort money from them?

I'm generally a believer in the fact that there is someone who likes most things so fair enough if some women like them but honestly I have never met a woman who does. I mean mostly they seem to be a bit bemused by the whole thing , the most common reaction seems to be along the line of " why in actual hell would I want to see this".

I mean don't get me wrong lovely things to play with but not the most aesthetic to my mind. I mean I love my dp's but because its attached to him as opposed to itself. It's made me smile a bit because as I read this I was opening my freeprints order that had been delivered and hiding from the DC because they want me to enlist in their current game as a bandit , makes one wonder if they ever print them out and frame them .