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To ask if you are OK with your daughter's subs being spent on this?

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KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:43

I've just come to update you on my case against Girlguiding, where they expelled me for raising safeguarding concerns and for asking why we had to believe in inner gender identity to be a leader.
Girlguiding have spent AT LEAST £35,000 and probably more like £100,000 of the subs you pay for your daughter to go to Rainbows, Brownies or Guides, on defending a case against me, a committed leader who wants to make sure girls are safe and leaders have freedom of expression.

Full text of my update in the next post so as not to bore you to death!

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JaJaDingDong · 24/07/2020 19:45

I'm not sure if I ought to answer YABU or YANBU, but I do agree that GG are being utterly ridiculous.

KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:46

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KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:47

Haha @JaJaDingDong let's say YANBU means GG are being massively unreasonable as a charity spending money like this!

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KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:48

Ah bother, I think I've put a verboten link in my second post.
Here is the text without the link. Sorry, overworked MN admins!

I wanted to update you on a hearing in my case that took place on Tuesday (21 July). Girlguiding had applied for it to deal with various things.

Firstly, they wanted to overturn the “stay” (a delay) of the hearing that the Judge had ordered because Maya Forstater’s case overlaps with mine and is being dealt with by a higher court. We asked for a stay of my case until Maya’s is dealt with, because otherwise we would have had two courts deciding a very similar issue at the same time, which would have caused confusion. The Court had previously agreed with us, and ordered the stay without needing a hearing. Girlguiding wanted this overturned so asked for a hearing for this to be considered.

Secondly, they wanted to overturn the permission I had been granted to amend my claim. When I put my claim form in, before I had any lawyers, I had mistakenly referred to one aspect of my claim as being direct discrimination, rather than (the correct) indirect discrimination. Clearly better that I DO have lawyers!

This was only on the form itself – in the pleadings itself (the description of the case, which my lawyers helped prepare) we made it clear it was indirect discrimination. Girlguiding have not had any obvious problem with this, and have lodged a defence to my indirect indiscrimination claim. We had therefore applied to correct the mistake on the claim form to substitute “indirect” for “direct”, which the Court had agreed on the papers, without a hearing. But Girlguiding wanted this overturned too, so needed a hearing for this to be considered.

Thirdly, Girlguiding wanted at this hearing to arrange for another hearing to be listed, to separately determine whether my belief in Gender Critical Feminism is Protected under the Equality Act 2020.

There were also some case management issues – which “track” to assign the case to (so, small claims, county court etc.). Each track has slightly different rules. My case is a bit unusual. I’m not claiming for much in the way of damages – Injury to Feelings awards, the way that discrimination damages are measured, are arranged in bands. I am seeking an award in the lowest band, of £5,000. But it is a legally complex case, because the belief that I am relying on has not been determined before. The question of which track to apply could have been dealt with on the papers, but as we were having a hearing, it was dealt with at the hearing.

The long and the short of it is that we got everything we wanted. The stay was allowed, so was the amendment, and there won’t be a separate hearing to discuss my beliefs separately from the facts of my expulsion from Girlguiding. All in all, a good day in court (obviously video court!). Huge thanks to my barrister Adam Ohringer for his work.

One of things that stood out for me was the way that Girlguiding is dealing with the case. I was represented on Monday by my barrister. To keep costs down, and because the matters were straightforward, my solicitor decided it wasn’t necessary for him to attend, so it was just Adam. Given how the hearing went, that decision was definitely the right one.

But facing my barrister, on behalf of Girlguiding on the other side were:

One QC (“silk”)
One non-QC barrister (but a pretty senior one – 29 years experience as a barrister and, I am told, extremely well-respected in her field)
Three more (!) lawyers or paralegals of one form or another from Girlguiding’s solicitors.

Before hearings like this, both sides have to send in a costs schedule – basically a spreadsheet which sets out the costs the lawyers are charging their clients, so that the successful party can have their costs paid by the losing party at the end of the hearing. Ours came to just over £6,000. The Court ordered Girlguiding to pay most of this - £4,800 - back to us to be used later in the case (I am told that the Court only rarely orders the full amount of costs to be paid – it’s part of the policy of dissuading people from going to court where it can be avoided and so easing the pressure on the Courts system).

In comparison to our costs of £6,000, Girlguiding’s cost schedule showed that they had incurred costs for preparing and attending the hearing of nearly £33,000! Added to the amount they have to pay back for my costs, this means that the three hour hearing on Tuesday cost Girlguiding over £40,000, for which they got – well, nothing really.

But that’s not all. Girlguiding’s lawyers also submitted costs schedules for the work they have done on various other bits of the case up to now. This shows that they already spent £45,057.56 (not including the £4,800 they now need to repay to me) just on various procedural applications and the short hearing on Tuesday. As well as paying for drafting their defence, they may have spent nearly £100,000 so far, and we’ve not even really started yet.

If I lose – and I might, this is complicated law, and nothing is certain – I could be liable for their costs. Not for the £33,000 they would have claimed for Tuesday’s hearing if they’d won – that’s gone now, thankfully, because they got nothing they were asking for. But if they carry on like this, it’s likely that costs will continue to rack up on their side as the case progresses.

The pressure of taking on such a big organisation by myself is quite daunting, so I am incredibly grateful for all the support that I have received. Thank you all, it means the world.

But we’re not done yet, and I haven’t yet achieved the level of funding which means I will definitely be able to see this through.

But for now, everything is on ice pending the outcome of Maya’s appeal. Crossing everything for her Appeal Tribunal!

Katie

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JaJaDingDong · 24/07/2020 19:48

I don't think the post has been hidden. I can see it.

KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:50

Post 3 (after yours) has been hidden but post 5 (massive long one you can skim over if you get bored) hasn't.

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RunningFromInsanity · 24/07/2020 19:53

On the other hand you are also partly responsible for the ‘wasting’ of the subs by partaking in the case?

You both have strong feelings about opposing views.

ferntwist · 24/07/2020 19:54

Cannot believe Girlguiding are spending this sort of money on a totally unnecessary court case. What has the organisation become? I volunteered for years before having my babies. This puts me off getting involved again.

Notredamn · 24/07/2020 19:55

What a travesty. So much admiration for you seeing this through Thanks

KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:57

None of the issues I'm asking them to solve would cost any money, and they'd all help children and leaders - I'm asking them to improve their safeguarding, and to treat all male children and adults the same regardless of gender identity, especially on residentials, to be honest with parents and allow them choice, and to allow leaders to hold a legal belief that people cannot change sex.
So they could easily have solved this without spending any money at all.

So sure, I could have just left all the Guides to carry on in the organisation with inadequate safeguarding, and I could have said it's OK to chuck out leaders who don't hold a certain belief. But I happen to think it's wrong, unsafe, and illegal.

And they could easily keep their costs down like we have... Even if they do prefer ideology to safeguarding.

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mummyoneboy19 · 24/07/2020 19:57

So, from what I can work out you’re against trans people being leaders?

And you’re suing GirlGuiding UK because they disagreed with you?

So basically, you’re upset that trans people exist in society and want subs money for “injury to feelings”.

Personally I’m happy they’re fighting this case.

yeOldeTrout · 24/07/2020 19:57

just the fact that this story is part of the MNr obsession with being anti-trans makes me want to side with GG.

IndecentFeminist · 24/07/2020 19:57

@RunningFromInsanity🙄

AnneOfQueenSables · 24/07/2020 19:58

I'm so disappointed with GG over all of this but I doubt they're using subs. They're probably using insurance to fund it or whichever funding agency that made them change from single sex to single gender may be funding it.
Can I ask why your belief is in gender critical feminism rather than science? Also, if the GG legal team were working pro bono would their bill show that?
I hope you win. I'm struggling to believe that the amazing, capable women I know in GG are happy at the direction this has taken.

KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 19:58

Sorry, the last was to @RunningFromInsanity.

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IndecentFeminist · 24/07/2020 19:58

It isn't to do with leaders, but the sex/gender of the children participating, and which groups they can access etc. Is my limited understanding.

Binterested · 24/07/2020 19:58

Wow! Well done Katie. Their expenditure alone is a scandal let alone their nonsensical policy. Backing you all the way.

Binterested · 24/07/2020 19:59

I can’t think that insurance would cover this?

IndecentFeminist · 24/07/2020 20:00

Can I ask why your belief is in gender critical feminism rather than science?

How are the two not aligned?

KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 20:02

It isn't to do with leaders, but the sex/gender of the children participating,

Leaders who have a gender identity of "woman" are allowed to join but leaders who don't, aren't. So basically that's all women who don't subscribe to "women should conform to gender stereotypes and I'm OK with that".

If you try to debate the issue, other leaders are encouraged to shop you. If you own up to not thinking everyone has an inner gender essence type aura, out you go. To many of us it's rather like insisting you believe in astrology or auras if you want to be a leader.

And, of course, it's a safeguarding issue.

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mummyoneboy19 · 24/07/2020 20:04

@KatieAlcock

I personally know a leader who does not conform to a female gender identity. It has never been an issue within their role in GirlGuiding and nobody has ever been encouraged to “shop” them. Hmm

KatieAlcock · 24/07/2020 20:05

@AnneOfQueenSables you can't hold a "protected belief" in science cos it's a thing not a belief! But I'm happy for someone to go around saying "my life is based on my belief in gender essence" as long as it doesn't affect me, same as I'd be happy for them to say "my life is guided by the fact I'm a Scorpio".

If they aren't being charged by their lawyers, it would not show on their costs schedule. But they are being charged. AFAIK nobody funded them to attempt to brainwash "educate" a load of girls and leaders.

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AnneOfQueenSables · 24/07/2020 20:05

They are aligned but many more people believe in science than gender critical feminism. I guess there must be a legal reason but it's similar to Maya's case and I'm still unclear why the legal teams think gc feminism is a stronger argument than science. It seems to move it from facts (science) to belief (feminism).

LastTrainEast · 24/07/2020 20:06

It shouldn't require a large team to defend abandoning safeguarding and it shouldn't require a private citizen to uncover this and force a court to look at it.
Where are the institutions that are supposed to protect our children?

YetAnotherSpartacus · 24/07/2020 20:06

Well done standing up for girls and women! This is not transphobia. This is about girls’ safety.

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