My Partner Keeps Tickling Me...

[MaudG]

Trying to work out if I'm over reacting!

My partner keeps tickling me, I've told him so many times that I hate it. I have also told him over and over again that it upsets me that he keeps doing it when I've told him I hate it.

Every time he says he's sorry he's upset me and he won't do it again. It can be a few days or even a few hours later, and he does it again.

Just to be clear that it's not prolonged or intense tickling, more just a little tickle lasting a second - but it's the fact he does it when he knows I hate it, then I get upset that he's doing something he knows I hate and doesn't seem to care that I hate it.

AIBU?

Sexual kick*

@BrandyandBabycham
Thank you 😊

@Rhubardandcustard

You say it’s just this one thing.

But it’s one thing you don’t like and you’ve asked him to stop and he still does it.

Replace the tickling with hitting you and then ask yourself if you would still stay with him.

Sorry op massive red flag. He won’t stop, you’ve let him get away with it and carry on.

Actually, I doubt it will be just this one thing. OP, if you have a really good look at your relationship, you may see other behaviour you've ignored or minimised.