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To ask whether you’d be able to get hold of drugs if you wanted to?

286 replies

GGhiutc · 05/05/2020 12:38

Just that really. I’m against drugs of any kind and wouldn’t have any idea how to get hold of any even if I wanted to. I wouldn’t have a clue who to contact and didn’t think I knew anyone else who’d have such contacts either.

Came up in conversation with DH last night whilst watching a programme about drug trafficking that he knows a number of people in the area who are able to get hold of such things (cocaine, MDMA etc) and even deliver to our door! I’m shocked. DH says that most people have the contacts to get hold of drugs if they really wanted to, which I’m not sure I believe. Am I really this naive?!

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Apirateslifeforme · 05/05/2020 20:57

I think most people know where they can get drugs.

I dont personally know anyone (but I dont bloody know anyone!)

But generally most people know someone who knows someone, or knows where people buy and sell drugs.

Bargainhuntbore · 05/05/2020 21:01

I have no idea. Then i don’t mix with people like that. I have a small close nit group of like minded friends and we share a lot. I know them and very much anti drugs.

MrsGrindah · 05/05/2020 21:04

People calling the OP naive and saying “ of course” they know how to get drugs....That’s your experience but if you have never bought drugs and don’t have friends who openly do then how on earth would you know? Please don’t sneer at someone for not knowing..that just not been their life experience so far.

BelfryBat · 05/05/2020 21:05

I don't know anyone who does drugs but I would know where to find dealers on the street though I wouldn't feel safe going to them!

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 05/05/2020 21:07

Nope I wouldn't have a clue either OP.

My best guess would be to pathetically approach the nearest teenager to ask where to get weed.

I'm not ashamed of being this "naive".

Jellykat · 05/05/2020 21:09

Yes easily, everything apart from Smack.. but i haven't touched anything for 30 years, i'd rather have a cuppa and bit of cake these days.

Susanna85 · 05/05/2020 21:11

Not direct to my door. But I know a place where dealers hang around.

Not for me though.

Graphista · 05/05/2020 21:23

I’m vehemently anti drugs never so much as tried a cigarette but yes I think you’re naive.

If I did suddenly decide to have a total character change and try them it’d probably take me an hour at most to figure out how. Mainly due to where I live is rife with it!

But even when I’ve lived in “naice” areas I’ve been aware of which people are users and likely to know where/who to get from because sadly it’s everywhere now.

To the point the police don’t even bother dealing with users of cannabis any more, it’s just too widespread it would take all their time and then some.

My brother a police officer despairs of this too. He has no interest either but in terms of his job says the cannabis users tend to be fairly chill and easy to deal with - it’s the Coke heads drive him nuts! Because they can get aggressive and do foul things in trying to avoid arrest or even speaking to police. The IV heroin addicts are the ones make him the saddest as they very rarely recover and he’s got to the point he can roughly estimate when they will end up dead.

“It's not the sort of thing you can drop onto FB, is it? "Asking for recommendations"...” it is where I am - coded - but it happens

I’ve even been approached to sell (I get strong painkillers prescribed which are a controlled drug. Never would and cut that person out of my life)

I’ve lost loved ones to drugs and have no sympathy for dealers, but our current approach (societally speaking) clearly isn’t working.

I don’t think dealers of any level should get away with what they’re doing but I think criminalising users is not working.

Far better imo to have them in proper total abstention rehab for a decent amount of time, no messing about with methadone crap either that’s just exchanging one addiction for another.

Until we accept that putting users in prison is pointless we’ll get nowhere in tackling this.

Ifeel1000yearsold · 05/05/2020 21:25

I have always wondered how people know how to get drugs. It’s not just you.

DimplesToadfoot · 05/05/2020 21:29

Easy, It would take me less than a minute, my neighbours are dealers, lockdown hasn't lessened the trade :-(

MarrowWang · 05/05/2020 21:31

Can get cannabis easily. Been looking for morphine for a while and seemingly none knows anyone who sells it. I have a legit reason, its not to abuse, am on a very high amount per day via GP, but often prescription is 2/3 days late, so would like some to make sure I don't go into withdrawal every month, which is currently happening.

SlightyJaded · 05/05/2020 21:32

Could get anything within a couple of hours.
Even in lockdown

No interest in doing so, but I know it would be one phone call.

I live in London and am in my late 40s

x2boys · 05/05/2020 21:33

Depends where you live really @MrsGrindah ,I don't take drugs never have really apart from the oddd sp!iff but I live on a,rough estate ,my neighbour used to deal weed and apparently one of the blokes in the flat opposite is a heroin dealer so I'm sure I could get everything else in between it I wished

HeronLanyon · 05/05/2020 21:35

Well before the dealer two doors up went inside - oops on holiday - for a bit I’d have had no problem. Plenty of friends who could sort me out. Also one or two roads where all you ah w to do is pop out for something and you are offered ‘something’. All central London. Thing is I don’t and almost never have.

ItsMsActually · 05/05/2020 21:35

Yep, with one phone call!

Breastfeedingworries · 05/05/2020 21:40

Yes very easily,I have done drugs previously though (cocaine) It’s sort of hidden in plain sight. I had no idea how many people were off their noggin in my local posh village pub into I joined their world temporarily.

I’m not a hypocrite, have done drugs wouldn’t spent money on them now as a mother but if offered (luckily haven’t been) would be tempted.

A friend of a friend who spends most of his money gambling away his inheritance and snorting it said his drug dealers are making a killing. As everyone’s stuck at home and bored they’ve never been busier. Shit thought.

McT123 · 05/05/2020 21:56

As others have said: I have a teenage son so am fairly sure he could sort me out double-quick.

BlueJava · 05/05/2020 22:06

No idea.

CloudsCanLookLikeSheep · 05/05/2020 22:11

I deliberately cut all my contacts when I gave up. Still think of it at times, but I was addicted so it's for my own good! It was the only way for me to stop.

RideaCockHorseOfCourse · 05/05/2020 22:15

My DS1 enlightened me to the fact that he would know exactly who to go to at school (he would've been 15 then) if he wanted drugs. I was Confused but thankfully he's always been a good, level headed sort! He's 27 now Smile And btw the school was actually fine, that sort of stuff can infiltrate anywhere, it seems.

McT123 · 05/05/2020 22:19

My DS1 enlightened me to the fact that he would know exactly who to go to at school
My son tells me that you can get cannabis at the local state school but if you want cocaine then it is best to speak to someone from the private school.
Ketamine is a bit more specialised and mushrooms are available in the local woods.

Fishfingersandwichplease · 05/05/2020 22:22

I wouldn't have a clue but think l am totally naive....happy to stay that way too thank you very much!!

Summerofloaf · 05/05/2020 22:26

People who are going to use illegal drugs will do so regardless.
People who aren't won't - again regardless.

You have no evidence of that whatsoever. People living today may not, but they have grown up in an age where these drugs are illegal.

You have no idea how future generations would view these substances growing up with them being as socially acceptable as alcohol and cigarettes .

Itsjustmee · 05/05/2020 22:39

Yes probably get whatever I need within 30 mins or so . Although I don’t smoke cigarettes and have never taken drugs

I could ask my sister in law if I wanted some very good weed 😂
Her son if I wanted Coke Speed Ket and other stuff.
My husbands barber if I wanted Coke
The young guy at the end of my street if I wanted Weed or Coke
Oh and my other neighbour grows weed in his spare room

I also have to take lot prescription tablets for on going chronic pain and I’m always being asked if I want to sell them

paininthepoinsettia · 05/05/2020 22:54

I love how on MN the demograph is either earning £100k at 30 or having a drug dealer for a neighbour, there seems to be no inbetween Grin

On a serious note, I wouldn't have a clue how/where to get drugs. Is there some sort of dial-a-drug order line? Surely dealers a suspicious of new people ordering, do you need a friend to refer you?