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Prison officer neighbour having different people visit her house

215 replies

allinboxes · 20/04/2020 15:36

Hello, Advice please, but she is doing my head in.

I have already reported this neighbour to the police last Monday as she has had her family round, her boyfriend who doesn't live with her and now for the last week her friend is round her house everyday using the her gym in the garage. shes not hiding anything either its in full view of other people walking past and other neighbours.

Do I report her again to the police?

OP posts:
RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 22/04/2020 21:16

I know love

Im sorry

Most of us are doing our best, most of us are fearful for our loved ones

Some of us are really fucking stupid

LagunaBubbles · 22/04/2020 21:16

You mean people who call people who report snitches? I wouldn't report anyone unless they were clearly breaking the guidelines about mixing households. Being concerned how many times people go to the shops is just silly to.

LagunaBubbles · 22/04/2020 21:17

Rufus I'm sorry to. Just exhausted and frustrated.

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 22/04/2020 21:18

laguna

Flowers

I was being unfair to you

Im sorry

LagunaBubbles · 22/04/2020 21:20

Thank you... I genuinely thought it might help people on this thread realise why the OPs neighbour is in the wrong, they are risking their colleagues lives. Sorry if I nearly lost the plot!

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 22/04/2020 21:24

No no it’s undoubtedly me and not you...

I type before i think sometimes

What am i saying?...i always type before i think Grin

Wine take care...you are doing a vital job and it’s a horrendously stressful one

A nurse Friend of mine had a massive text rant the other day...and i hadnt even accused her of anything!

JamesNesbittsBrows · 22/04/2020 21:25

I agree with you OP. It's shit when you're doing everything to support the NHS and are missing your family and life and others are carrying on as though they are too special to make the same sacrifice as everyone else.

Feeling like we're all in it together gives us the strength to keep going.
But we're not. And seeing that every day is hard.

Back off with the bullying and accusations of snitching etc.

LagunaBubbles · 22/04/2020 21:32

nurse Friend of mine had a massive text rant the other day...and i hadnt even accused her of anything!

Haha Grin

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 22/04/2020 21:35

😀

Rachie1973 · 22/04/2020 21:43

I got reported lol

I had 2 friends in my garden.

All 3 of us work the same shift as support workers with the same residents. We share a tiny staff room, and can be quite literally face to face with 6 inches between us when we’re cleaning residents.

It’s stressful and exhausting. The police just wished us good luck with our PPE supplies and went on their way. Hooray for common sense.

Smilethoyourheartisbreaking · 22/04/2020 22:24

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Itsabitmessy · 22/04/2020 23:01

Laguna be as angry as you like. Some of the attitudes on here have been frankly shocking. Calling anyone thinking of reporting someone a snitch, grass and comparing them to those who reported their neighbours in Nazi Germany. What on Earth is wrong with these people? Do they not watch the news, do they believe they have a special exemption from sticking to the lockdown rules? Do they think a natter with friends over a cuppa in their living rooms is more important than the wellbeing of people they come in contact with out and about? It’s an utterly shitty attitude.

Tootletum · 22/04/2020 23:06

She sounds like a twat but I guess I wouldn't report her particularly if you already have and nothing has changed. I'd be too worried about the fallout.

Seetheprettysnowdrops · 23/04/2020 21:00

Have we had that Gindaddy in yet, that poster lives talking about dry snitches

They'd find good company here

Hairydogmummy · 23/04/2020 21:18

Literally can't believe the nastiness on here. Last week I posted that I was thinking of reporting 3 different families...my neighbours who were letting their small children play together out in the street all day every day. Very few replies but universal 'yes' and this week, in a similar situation, the OP is jumped on and told she's a snitch and to mind her own business? That's really worrying. And the poster who said it was like people in occupied Europe reporting Jews to the Nazis?? There are no words for the tasteless ignorance of that comparison. If people aren't keeping to the rules it's everyone's business otherwise why are we bothering?

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