Not the same thing at all. As someone who lost a parent at a young age, why would you knowingly put your child through the grief of having a father and then that parent suddenly dying when you're young? And yes I know young people die too, my father was only 43 when he died, but statistically Bernie's got few years left
I see what you mean, but I just think this is more about the idea of a 44 year old having sex with an 89 year old than true concerns for the child. .
Surely better to have a good dad for 5 or 10 years than none at all? Plenty of men divorce women when their kids are that age and never see their kids again. My twat of a cousin did that to his kids. I think his children would have actually been less messed up had my cousin died, because at least that isn't them being rejected.
I just think that If the lady got pregnant naturally, would anyone seriously expect her to abort a child with her husband, that she obviously wants, simply because her husband was old? It's not impossible to naturally gather kids at that age. Charlie Chaplin fathered a child in his mid to late 80s. No IVF in those days!