AIBU weird game at Hen Party

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It was my friends hen last weekend and there were 12 of us together in a large flat we had rented - including the grooms sister.

MOH had arranged a stripper / butler in the buff type guy and we were playing some "naughty" hen type games - nothing unusual - until MOH gets out a Twister set and announces we were going to be playing Twister with this guy! Oh and the catch was every time you got a new pose there was a second spinner (kind of like the one in the game where it says left foot yellow etc) that had a body part on it and the guy would then tickle u in that spot for a few seconds to try and make u fall over! The first person to lose then had to do a forfeit like take a shot.

Now I don't mind silly hen games but don't really want to be tickled by a randomer! The spinner even had "bum" on it as one of the options! So I sat out but I was one of only 2 people to do so and the others all called me a prude! Some of the girls who played were married / had bfs as well!

So is it just me or is that really fucking weird! Have hen party games officially gone too far?

that's literally my worst nightmare. ughhhhhh

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I don't think it matters if they had a DH. Now I'm older I wouldn't want to do that either but as long as the chap was up for it too then don't see the problem

V.strange

Oh god no thanks

Not my thing at all, I would have been sitting out alongside you OP.

I'd be sitting on the bench with you op!

I'd be fine with there being a stripper, being tickled by a randomer in possibly intimate places though?! No chance!!!
YANBU

Tickled on the bum by a stranger in front of a load of people - er no thanks!

I'm not a prude in the slightest bit do have people in my personal space and being touched by strangers.

Mmm yes not sure I'd want to do this either!

What? WHAT?? That cannot have happened! That's an orgy not a hen do! Poor bloke (prostitution type jobs can be a choice, but often it's "chosen" because they can't make enough money any other way). Grim af.

Christ on a bike. No. Not even if I was single. Fucking vile!

That sounds vile, still, you didn’t want to join in, so that’s that. Consent and all that. I would question the mindset of the people organising it though, and absolutely go to town on anyone calling me a prude. Distasteful regardless of marital status imo.

TBF the guy seemed quite onboard with it, they were having a laugh the whole time and he kept joking saying "This is every mans dream, getting to play Twister with a load of beautiful women!" but I just found it weird as fuck!

Gross

I'd have sat the whole thing out as the stripper alone would make me feel uncomfortable.

If I was younger I'd have felt pressured to go along with hit and let him touch me when I didn't want him to but as I've gotten older I give less of a fuck. If my boundaries mean I'm a prude then I'm good with that. If my friends pressured me into physical contact with a man I didn't want tickling me then there's a good chance they would no longer be my friend.

I know! The other tickle spots were less weird stuff like feet, sides knees etc and everyone apart from stripper guy were fully clothed or in pjs but nonetheless...

I’m not a prude either but my body is for me to decide who can touch it - where and when. I would not have taken part. And I wouldn’t care what anyone else thinks either.

I’d have sat out too. But then I am a bit of a prude.

I don't really like the idea of a stripper, only because I don't like the idea of my husband getting a stripper so it feels a bit hypocritical.

The twister would literally be my worst nightmare. I am not that tactile and don't like the thought of anyone tickling me other than husband and kids, let alone a stranger infront of a group of people. I'd have also sat it out. And I'm not a prude at all, though I clearly am a misery guts as the thought of playing any organised 'games' on hen does fills me with dread

I can believe it happened. I freelance and often cater hen parties that have also hired the naked butlers. (they do wear a gstring and a tiny apron).

After a few drinks I have seen the hens groping the butlers, inappropriate touching and basically treating them like a male prostitute.

I have often thought if the genders were reversed it would be dreadful.

We have a group WhatsApp chat and some of the girls are still laughing about it and teasing the bride cos she had such a weird squeal / laugh when she was being tickled!

The other thing I found a bit weird is someone (there were only 3 hens plus the guy playing at a time, so not sure who) took a photo of the game "in action" showing the bride getting tickled and has shared it in the group! Luckily I'm only in the background sitting on the sofa and u can't really see my face properly but other people in the photo are quite identifiable! I'm now imagining this pic making its way onto FB and peoples bfs / employers seeing it...

It's weird as fuck.

You've also mentioned about people's partners seeing it - IMO if you're worried that it'd upset your partner then you know it's inappropriate.